Once, I went on a date with a guy who was, to put it mildly, peculiar. He exhibited strange behaviors at dinner and even left the restaurant with the unfinished bottle of wine tucked under his coat. However, he did say one thing that has stuck with me: “You’re one of those tortured souls, aren’t you? You torment yourself by watching the news and absorbing all the dreadful events happening around the world.” It was an odd observation, but one that rang true.
I do have a compulsive tendency to consume news filled with negativity and despair. Just look at the recent tragedies, like the Navy Yard shooting in D.C. There’s certainly no shortage of grim stories out there. Between daily reports of violence, unrest in the Middle East, and bizarre health threats, it often feels like we’re spiraling downward into chaos. I recall my brother expressing anguish after 9/11, grappling with the thought of whether it was selfish to bring my nephew into such an unpredictable world. He worried about his ability to protect him when his own security felt so fragile.
Despite the overwhelming sense of doom surrounding us, life continues, and babies are born each day, perpetuating the cycle of existence. As caretakers of the next generation, our responsibility is to foster a spirit of compassion in these little ones. In challenging times, they should learn to identify the helpers, as Mr. Rogers wisely suggested.
Life can often feel fragmented, divided into clear before-and-after moments. As a parent, I constantly navigate this post-Columbine, post-Newtown reality. A simple gesture from one of my children can strike me profoundly, reminding me of the countless parents grieving their losses. Somewhere, a mother aches for her child, while another feels a pang of nostalgia at a familiar bus stop.
Nevertheless, I am continually inspired by the resilience of the human spirit. The more I confront the darkness in the news, the more I discover websites dedicated to highlighting goodness. For every tragic event, stories emerge of kindness—whether it’s someone buying coffee for a stranger, covering a family’s tab at a restaurant, or assisting with layaway bills at K-Mart for those in need. The more negativity attempts to suppress us, the more our spirits rise in defiance.
Just yesterday, I faced one of my toughest parenting days. Honestly, it was among the worst I’ve had in five years. My kids were relentless with their complaints, and instead of remaining calm, I lost my temper. Yelling, slamming doors, and tears marked my evening. I felt utterly defeated when I crawled into bed.
Yet, this morning brought a refreshing change. Both boys emerged from their bedroom, sleepy but cheerful. “Good morning, Mommy,” they chimed in unison, sharing stories of their joyful dreams. It felt like a clean slate, a perfect example of unconditional love. This experience reminded me to embrace each day with the same spirit they have, trusting that love, hope, and resilience will prevail.
Choose hope. It truly is everything.
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