Welcome to the delightful world of parenting teenagers, where communication feels like deciphering an ancient language. You might have thought you left the toddler translation struggles behind, but here you are navigating the tumultuous waters of adolescence.
Examples of Miscommunication
What I say: We need to leave the house in five minutes or we’ll be late.
What my teens hear: Perfect time to change outfits 72 times, throw everything on the floor, and spend an eternity in the bathroom!
What I say: Please take a shower.
What my teens hear: If you just lock the door and turn on the water, you can avoid any interruptions for at least 45 minutes. Washing? Not necessary. Enjoy wasting hot water while you sit on your phone.
What I say: I’m creating a shopping list. What do you want for dinner next week?
What my teens hear: Lots of food is on the way! I hope you’re ready to devour everything in one night because I can always buy more.
What I say: Time to wake up and get ready for school.
What my teens hear: Just grunt a couple of times to indicate you’re alive. I’ll keep coming back until it’s almost time to catch the bus. I’ve got nothing else to do this morning anyway!
What I say: Clean your room, please.
What my teens hear: Just shove everything under the bed and behind the dresser. Spray some air freshener so it smells like cologne-infused vomit, and turn the vacuum on without actually moving it. That should do the trick!
What I say: I’m on the phone, could you lower the volume?
What my teens hear: Turn down the volume for three seconds before cranking it back up. Only old folks keep it below 20!
What I say: I don’t think that’s appropriate for your age.
What my teens hear: I’d prefer if you watched that when I’m not around. I just need to say I told you so later!
What I say: Did you put gas in the car last night?
What my teens hear: Did you put just enough gas in to say yes to this question?
What I say: Can you stop fighting for 30 seconds?
What my teens hear: Please, yell louder or break something expensive. That would be awesome. Make me yell six more times before I threaten military school!
What I say: I need help cleaning up.
What my teens hear: There’s somewhere else you can mysteriously disappear to right now.
Further Reading
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Conclusion
In summary, communicating with teenagers can often feel like speaking different languages. What you say and what they hear can be worlds apart, but understanding this can make parenting a bit easier.