Updated: August 21, 2023
Originally Published: March 21, 2011
The baby and toddler years can be an absolute whirlwind of exhaustion, and while those early stages come with their own sweet moments, it’s hard not to feel a twinge of nostalgia when they come to an end. No more adorable mispronunciations, the bliss of squishy toddler toes, or the thrill of training wheels on a bike. As I stroll past the local play centers and see the remnants of those days, I can’t help but reflect on how far we’ve come. Now that my kids are in 1st and 2nd grade, I must say, there are some incredible perks to them getting older. So for those mamas feeling a little melancholic about saying goodbye to babyhood, here’s a silver lining to accompany your bittersweet feelings. And for those who are currently navigating the chaos of toddlerhood, take heart—things genuinely do get easier!
1. More Enjoyable Entertainment Choices
Remember those mind-numbing games and TV shows that made you want to pull your hair out? The ones where you were stuck reading the same tedious board book for the umpteenth time? Those days are behind you. Now, you can dive into games that require real strategy (where you might even lose gracefully), and introduce your kids to classic literature that you adored as a child, like the adventures of Encyclopedia Brown. Plus, you can finally watch shows featuring actual actors who don’t communicate in pitches that only dogs can hear.
2. Significant Savings on Batteries
At one point, we were shelling out a small fortune—around $50 a month—on batteries to fuel the endless parade of beeping toys and gadgets. Now, a bulk pack of AA batteries lasts us for ages, leaving more room in the budget for other necessities.
3. Less Messy Craft Projects
I cherish the creativity my children displayed during their preschool years, but let’s be real—every day brought a new wave of gigantic, messy crafts. Those enormous “abstract” pieces of art, popsicle stick structures that crumbled in transit, and paint splatters were exhausting. Now that they’re older, the craft projects are far less frequent and much easier to manage.
4. Longer-Lasting Clothing
When I sorted through the girls’ clothes from last year, I was pleasantly surprised to find that many items still fit! For the first time, I had to toss a pair of sneakers because they were worn out instead of outgrown. This not only saves money but also cuts down on the frequent shopping trips.
5. Genuine Household Help
While toddlers’ attempts to assist in the kitchen or with chores are adorable, they often lead to more mess than help. Now, my daughters can make their beds, measure ingredients accurately (without half of it ending up on the floor), and sort laundry, which brings me immense joy.
6. Dining Out Becomes Enjoyable
Although we’re not quite ready for fine dining just yet, going out as a family doesn’t require us to hide in the corner of a restaurant anymore. My girls have matured enough to sit through a meal without throwing food, licking surfaces, or causing a scene, allowing my husband and me to actually savor our meals.
7. Simplified Discipline
Back when my oldest was three, timeouts were a game to her. Now, a gentle suggestion that she might miss an upcoming birthday party if her behavior doesn’t improve is all it takes to turn her into a well-behaved angel.
8. Your Brain Gets a Workout
Helping the kids navigate their Common Core math homework means your brain will be back in action, which is a relief after years of toddler-focused tasks.
9. No More Diaper Duty
Let’s face it—this one needs no further explanation. You’re free!
10. Seeing Your Efforts Pay Off
All those hours spent singing the ABCs, pointing out colors, and counting Cheerios felt exhausting at the time. The nights spent rocking them to sleep while practically in tears from exhaustion, and the countless reminders to say “please” and “thank you,” often felt futile. As they grow, it becomes clearer how those small efforts have shaped them. They evolve into remarkable individuals with their own personalities, jokes, and kindness.
While I know challenging years lie ahead (or so I hear from those who’ve walked the teen path), I’m committed to savoring every phase as it comes. I hold dear the memories preserved in videos and photos that remind me of those fleeting days.
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Summary
The transition from baby and toddler years to elementary school brings numerous advantages that make parenting easier and more enjoyable. From more engaging entertainment to genuine help around the house, the journey of watching children grow is filled with rewarding moments. While the nostalgia of babyhood lingers, the excitement of watching kids develop into unique individuals makes it all worthwhile.