As an expectant mother, you envision the future of your child, filled with dreams and hopes. Above all, the desire to bring a healthy baby into the world is paramount. You may imagine your daughter inheriting your mother’s stunning green eyes or your son avoiding the family nose. Let’s be honest, deep down, every parent wishes their little one resembles them—or at least reflects their side of the family.
Unless there is a significant family history of vision issues or other specific concerns, the thought of your baby needing glasses likely doesn’t cross your mind. Yet, it can happen. You might handle the diagnosis with a brave face, perhaps even cracking a joke, but internally, you may find yourself thinking, “No! Not my baby!”
It’s not that you lack perspective; you recognize that this diagnosis is relatively minor in the grand scheme of things. In many respects, you feel fortunate. However, the reality is that glasses will introduce a small hurdle for your child, making life just a tad more complicated—perhaps only 1% more challenging, but that’s still more than you’d prefer.
You can hold progressive views, championing the idea that everyone deserves to be seen for who they are inside, regardless of appearance. Yet, witnessing your beautiful child in bulky frames can be disheartening.
Here’s a truth that can be difficult to voice: I wish my kids didn’t have to wear glasses. Part of it stems from the fact that my daughter requires prescription goggles for swimming, and my son misplaces his glasses every few days. But honestly, it’s mostly because I dislike how their flawless little faces are hidden behind even the sleekest frames.
Moreover, the comments from strangers can sting, especially when they touch on insecurities you already harbor. For any parent, the thought of someone saying something unkind to their child is distressing, but it’s even harder when it relates to an issue you’re trying to accept.
So, do I adore that my kids wear glasses? Not exactly. Have I come to terms with it? Yes, I have embraced their unique vision challenges. All four of them.
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In summary, while the thought of your child needing glasses can be daunting, it’s essential to embrace the situation with love and understanding. Every challenge presents an opportunity for growth, both for you and your little one.