As a mother of three boys who uses a wheelchair, I often find myself the center of curious glances and questions. Children, with their unfiltered honesty, frequently approach me with inquiries like, “Why can’t you walk?” or “Are your legs broken?” Initially, the parents seem taken aback, embarrassed by their child’s boldness. However, their expressions soften when they notice my warm smile.
To ease their curiosity, I usually start with a simple explanation: “My legs just don’t work anymore.” But, being kids, they often follow up with “Why?” I take a playful pause, feigning deep thought, because their questions are important. I explain that our bodies have nerves, much like the cord of a lamp, and mine was cut, which means my legs can no longer receive the signals needed to move. Most kids respond with a puzzled look, followed by a simple “Oh, okay.”
This routine conversation is familiar, yet it brings me joy to see children learning to ask questions about differences in our lives. It fosters understanding, showing that while we may all have unique experiences, we all share the same desire to connect.
To parents, I say: Encourage your children to be inquisitive! Don’t shy away from discussions about differences. Chances are, people are more than willing to share their stories, whether it’s about their blue hair or a visible scar. If you don’t ask, how will they ever know you care?
You may wonder how I keep up with my energetic boys from a wheelchair. Honestly, it’s not something I can easily articulate—I just do it! You can see for yourself how I manage to chase after them and engage in their adventures.
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In summary, being a mom with a wheelchair offers a unique lens through which I view parenting. It not only opens the door to meaningful conversations with children but also enriches my connection with them and teaches valuable life lessons about differences and acceptance.