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Catcalling: Not Cute, So Let’s Cut It Out!
It’s a well-known scenario near construction sites across the nation: A self-assured woman strolls past a group of workers, only to be bombarded with whistles, catcalls, and unsolicited remarks about her looks. In that moment, she faces a quick decision on how to react. Should she give them a scornful look and walk away? Should she toss her hair back and strut off, letting them enjoy the view? Or perhaps she should approach one of the perpetrators, run her fingers over his biceps, and say, “Hey there, big guy, looking for a good time?” I can almost guarantee that if she took that route, he’d quickly back down, right?
Now, I’m no stranger to the occasional catcalling myself, and I must say, I find it utterly perplexing. What is it that drives a man to shout compliments at a woman he doesn’t even know? I’ve often wondered what they hope to accomplish with such childish antics. Do they really think that when I hear their suggestive whistles, I’ll suddenly become enamored and beg for their attention?
Absolutely not.
I’m a confident person who doesn’t need validation from a random guy on the street who thinks my legs look great. Trust me, I know how hard I’ve worked to sculpt those legs through countless hours of spin class. When I encounter catcalling, I often feel the urge to remind those men that I could easily defend myself if they cross the line again. But that wouldn’t be very polite, now would it?
The other day, while walking through the bustling streets of New York City with my daughter, I was appalled to witness men winking, licking their lips, and making crude comments about my appearance. One man in a coffee shop even suggested he could “buy me more than just a cup of coffee,” which I can only assume didn’t involve that delicious Rice Krispies treat in the case. When I firmly told him to back off, he had the audacity to insist he was just being “nice.” I had to channel my inner Janet Jackson and let him know just how inappropriate he was.
Women encounter unsolicited comments about their looks everywhere. Whether it’s a whistle appreciating some cleavage or a derogatory remark aimed at a mom’s figure, we are subjected to constant objectification. If any men are reading this: Catcalling is absolutely not the way to win a woman’s heart.
One of my biggest pet peeves is when I’m out for a jog. Usually, I’m focused, listening to music, and trying to avoid reckless drivers. When a stranger honks and gestures suggestively, it completely throws off my groove. Suddenly, I’m left wondering if I’m about to get hit by a car, all while trying to regain my focus.
So, men, while I understand that a female runner’s figure might catch your eye, please realize that honking and lewd gestures only distract us and put us in danger. If I give you a gesture as you drive by, it’s definitely not an invitation!
One day, I might just call out a catcaller’s bluff. And when that time comes, I’ll lean in close and whisper, “You know what really gets me going? The thought of you doing my laundry and cleaning my dishes. Let’s get to it, darling, my house won’t tidy itself!”
That’s my kind of banter, gentlemen.
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Summary:
Catcalling is an outdated and disrespectful behavior that objectifies women rather than appreciating them. Women deserve to be treated with respect and dignity, not as targets for crude comments. It’s time to put an end to this childish behavior and recognize that genuine connections are built on mutual respect.