When I was a child, I often found myself asking my parents if they were thrilled about upcoming events. Whether we were on our way to a birthday party at an ice skating rink or visiting relatives, I would eagerly inquire, “Are you excited?” Even trips for Girl Scouts or a highly anticipated movie prompted my innocent questioning. My youthful enthusiasm led me to believe that their excitement mirrored mine.
Their consistent reply was something along the lines of, “Excited? We’re looking forward to it,” which puzzled me. I couldn’t fathom why they didn’t share my exuberance about a county fair or a Paula Abdul concert. I can remember thinking, “How dull it must be to grow up.” It never crossed my mind to ask them about their own exciting plans or travels—after all, children often have a one-track mind.
A Shift in Perspective
Recently, we took a quick trip to the beach, and as I detailed our agenda—walking the boardwalk, indulging in ice cream, playing games, splashing in the pool—my daughter Lily chimed in with the same question I once asked my parents: “Are you excited?” I paused for a moment, realizing my response had shifted. “Excited? Not really. I’m looking forward to it.” And indeed, I was.
However, I confess, I do feel a rush of excitement for certain milestones, like the first day of school. It seems I have officially become my parents!
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Conclusion
In summary, while childhood excitement often feels all-consuming, adulthood brings a more measured anticipation. It’s a natural evolution, and it’s perfectly fine to embrace both feelings at different stages of life.