Dear Mom,
It’s perfectly fine that you’re the only one who can soothe your little one to sleep for naps. It’s absolutely okay that you can’t picture spending a night away from your child—yet you might also find yourself dreaming of some time to yourself. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed by your child’s significant need for you, but it’s also okay to be filled with immense love because of it.
If your toddler still nurses during the night, that’s completely understandable. Offering to nurse when you’re tired and just want a moment of stillness on the couch is perfectly fine too. It’s okay to use nursing as a tool to prevent a tantrum, or even to sometimes wish for a break from nursing altogether. Your feelings are valid, whether they lean toward exhaustion or joy.
There may be moments when you feel “touched out” or even a bit uncomfortable while nursing, and that’s alright. Many mothers find themselves scrolling through their phones during nursing sessions, and yet still cherish the warmth of being close to their child. It’s okay if your toddler doesn’t sleep with you as much anymore or if you’re uncertain about when or how weaning will happen. You might have a gentle plan in place or you may want to speed up the process; both feelings are normal.
It’s also natural to compare your nursing journey with others, whether your toddler nurses more or less than a friend’s child. Remember, nursing creates a unique bond between you two, and it’s common to feel a little lost when you’re apart. You might even wonder when you’ll reclaim your life, your body, and your sleep. It’s okay to savor the moments of closeness while also feeling a yearning for independence.
You’re not alone in experiencing these mixed emotions. Mammals have been nursing their young into toddlerhood and beyond for ages, navigating the complexities of motherhood. No two journeys look the same, and that’s the beauty of it. Listen to your child and trust your instincts. Embrace the love you share.
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Summary
Nursing a toddler is filled with a spectrum of emotions, from love to exhaustion. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed, to cherish moments of closeness, and to wonder about the future of your nursing relationship. Every mother’s journey is unique, and it’s important to trust yourself and embrace the love you share with your child.