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This Is What 38 Years of Friendship Looks Like
What does 38 years of friendship truly look like? It’s effortless. Genuine. Authentic.
Three decades ago, our mothers made a promise to each other, becoming godmothers to their little girls. Fast forward 27 years, and we stood side by side as each other’s maids of honor. Just three years after that, we became godmothers to each other’s children. And all the moments in between? They’re far too precious to be boiled down to mere words.
In our youth, I admired her adventurous spirit, her fearless nature, her unmatched ability to spread joy, and her enormous heart that welcomed everyone. I still do. What amazes me now is how she has kept those qualities alive as she embraced adulthood, seamlessly integrating them into her marriage, parenting, and career.
A Transformative Friendship
Over the years, our friendship has transformed significantly. Although we haven’t lived in the same city for nearly 20 years, it has only strengthened our bond. After all, distance is merely a matter of miles, not of the heart. When we see each other just three times a year, we make every moment special.
We may not chat daily, but there’s nothing I wouldn’t share with her. Our conversations have shifted from schoolwork and crushes to home repairs and potty training, yet we’ve always spoken a common language. We’ve endured the awkwardness of braces, the heartbreak of bad relationships, the sorrow of loss, and the joy of family vacations and laughter-filled nights. Through it all, our connection has deepened, rooted in both the challenges and triumphs of growing up and aging together.
Embracing the Chaos
Today, we find ourselves as busy moms, often with messy hair and bits of food on our shirts (and let’s be real, some of that food isn’t just from our kids!). When she visits, I don’t tidy up; we embrace the chaos of our lives without pretense. Our families might not be perfect, but the love we share is undeniable.
Our kids have formed a bond so strong that they truly believe they’re siblings. We’ve never bothered to correct that belief because sometimes, the family we choose is just as meaningful as the one we’re born into.
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Conclusion
In summary, 38 years of friendship is about shared experiences, laughter, and the love that binds us closer together, despite the distances that may separate us.