As our children grow from tiny infants into curious toddlers, they lean on us for every little thing—even burping! One of our biggest goals as parents is to guide them toward independence and, yes, to become less reliant on us as they navigate the world. I recently penned a piece about the bittersweet process of letting go, recognizing that sometimes our kids are ready for the next chapter before we are. Ultimately, it often comes down to the child confidently exclaiming, “Hey Mom or Dad, I’ve got this!” while we learn to trust their readiness.
Take, for instance, that moment when you’re hesitant to let your little one have finger foods. Then, she surprises you by picking up a Cheerio, grinning, and saying, “No problem. I’ve got this, Mom.” Or picture your toddler releasing your hand to take his first wobbly steps, looking up with a determined, “I’ve got this, Mom,” before tumbling down and popping back up to try again.
Perhaps you’re uncertain about how your child will handle the transition to preschool. Yet, he steps into his new classroom, glancing back at you with a brave, “I’ve got this, Mom,” despite the tears welling in both your eyes.
Then there’s that exhilarating moment when you let go of the bike as she sails away on her two-wheeler for the first time, shouting, “I’ve got this, Mom!” Or when your child stands at the edge of the diving board, takes a deep breath, and jumps, resurfacing with a triumphant, “I’ve got this, Mom!”
As you watch your child board the school bus for kindergarten, he turns to give you a thumbs-up, signaling, “I’ve got this, Mom.” From joining a sports team to facing the bumps of life, your child continually reassures you: “I totally rocked this, Mom!”
Even in tougher times, like when they face an injury, they muster the courage to say, “I know, Mom. I’ve got this.” At her first sleepover, she hugs you goodbye with a cheerful, “I’ve got this, Mom!” And when faced with new challenges, like hockey practice without your presence, he confidently asserts, “I’ve got this, Mom.”
As you drop your child off at the mall for the first time, she rolls her eyes and insists, “I’ll be fine, Mom. I’ve got this.” These moments, filled with confidence, are what we cherish. I can already see future milestones looming on the horizon—dating, driving, college. Oh, the anticipation!
Of course, there are times when our kids may stumble, and they’ll need us to pull back, but for the most part, they truly seem to sense when they’re ready for the next adventure.
Recently, I took my eldest, Mia, to her high school orientation. As we sat in the car, we both took a deep breath, staring at the vast building before us. I looked at Mia, now nearly as tall as I am, and felt a mix of pride and nostalgia as she embarked on this new chapter. I kissed her cheek and said, “Hey, you’ve got this.”
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In summary, as parents, we witness our children’s journey toward independence, each milestone echoing their confidence in saying, “I’ve got this.” Understanding when to step back and trust them is key, as we navigate the challenges and joys of parenting together.