As I embrace the evolution of my personality, it’s heartwarming to witness the essence of my mother blossoming within me, much like a resilient oak tree. It’s quite delightful to think that such a wonderfully quirky and vibrant woman is part of my being, reminiscent of a curious twist on pregnancy.
While my mother’s approach wasn’t always aligned with my preferences (a quintessential trait of motherhood, perhaps), her words and actions have profoundly influenced me, and I cherish that legacy. Here are some valuable nuggets of wisdom I’ve inherited, which I now pass down to my daughter—and maybe you’ll find them useful too.
- “Choose a hairstyle that enhances your face shape. It’s not about having long hair; anyone can do that!”
- “It’s different from, not different than!”
- “When you jump, bend your knees upon landing! It’s important for your joints!”
- “To put on a shirt, pull it straight down. Don’t just shove your face through or you’ll ruin the elastic!”
- “If you have an itch near a wound, scratch around it, not over it, to avoid scarring.”
- “You don’t want to spoil your dinner.”
- “Forget those sugary Disney films. Let’s watch Sweeney Todd, The Demon Barber of Fleet Street together instead. Popcorn included!”
- “The secrets to life? Baste every ten minutes, use Formula 409, and don’t forget the rouge!”
- “I’m not hurt at all because you prefer store-bought dressing over my homemade oil and vinegar concoction!”
- “Keep your eyes on the ball and don’t look side to side.”
- “Not all rules matter; some are worth bending.”
As I approach my fortieth birthday, I finally appreciate the wisdom in ignoring the rigid rules of addition.
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In summary, these life lessons from my mother continue to resonate within me, shaping the way I guide my daughter. They remind us of the importance of wisdom passed from one generation to the next, fostering a richer understanding of life and its many quirks.