Ah, the nostalgia of childhood! Growing up in the 80s, I reveled in the music videos on MTV, shared inside jokes from shows like You Can’t Do That on Television, and proudly sported my Trapper Keeper. I was a punk with green hair and combat boots, but fast forward to today, and I’m all about baking cookies, pies, and brownies. Betty “Freaking” Crocker has got nothing on me, even if my street cred has taken a hit.
Motherhood has undeniably changed me—not just in my values and habits, but in how I perceive the world around me. Recently, I revisited some beloved childhood films, and I was struck by how differently I reacted to them now. Here are my top 7 picks:
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Adventures in Babysitting
As a kid: It was all about the thrill of babysitting, college crushes, and a wild road trip with the quirky Darryl. What’s not to love?
As a mom: This film has become a cautionary tale. The idea of leaving my kids at home fills me with dread. Just thinking about it gives me chills. -
Stand By Me
As a kid: Who wouldn’t want to embark on a daring adventure with friends, sans adults? Plus, River Phoenix was a total heartthrob!
As a mom: My anxiety levels skyrocket watching these kids face countless dangers. How did they survive so many near-misses? I’m still unpacking my feelings about this in therapy! -
Beaches
As a kid: I adored Bette Midler and dreamt of Broadway stardom while singing along to the music.
As a mom: The heartbreaking fate of Barbara Hershey’s character hits hard. I couldn’t bear to watch this while pregnant—not a single moment. -
The Breakfast Club
As a kid: This movie was groundbreaking, raw, and relatable. I memorized every line, even with the awkward TV edits.
As a mom: I find myself questioning why schools don’t offer more practical classes. And the idea of my gifted child taking risks? Terrifying! -
The Karate Kid
As a kid: The mentorship of an older man teaching karate felt like a dream come true.
As a mom: I would never allow my sons to spend time alone with a man they’re not related to. Those gifts? Major red flags! -
Back to the Future
As a kid: Doc Brown was the ultimate eccentric friend, and Marty McFly was the epitome of cool. Time travel was pure magic!
As a mom: The unease over the relationship between an old man and a teen is unsettling. And the thought of my kids meeting my teenage self? No thanks! -
The Goonies
As a kid: The adventure, friendship, and treasure hunts made this film a classic!
As a mom: Where were their parents? By the time Chunk called for help, there should have been an Amber Alert. The danger they faced was no joke.
Motherhood transforms not just your actions but your very essence. It’s an all-encompassing experience that reshapes your worldview. I can’t help but wonder how different Gene Siskel’s movie critiques might have been after he became a parent.
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Summary:
Motherhood shifts your perception of childhood films in unexpected ways. Revisiting classics like Adventures in Babysitting and Stand By Me reveals the layers of anxiety and caution that come with parenting. While these films once brought joy, they now evoke concern and reflection on safety and well-being. Embracing the challenges of motherhood transforms not only our values but also the media we consume.