Social Media and Well-being
While younger generations might not voice it as much, I’ve encountered various individuals from older demographics asserting that Facebook detracts from happiness. One gentleman remarked, “Instead of making plans and visiting each other, everyone is just glued to their screens. It’s detrimental to human connections.” I beg to differ. Yes, face-to-face interactions can be more vibrant and enjoyable, fostering deeper connections than online exchanges. However, dismissing Facebook for not matching in-person interactions is a classic case of letting the quest for perfection overshadow what’s beneficial.
From my own perspective, Facebook enables me to maintain relationships with a wider circle of people than I could manage through more traditional means. It helps me keep track of friends despite changes in contact information and offers a convenient way to reach out to others without the pressure of a call or email. And let’s be honest, writing a letter is not happening!
Take, for instance, a recent coffee meet-up with a friend named “Sara,” whom I hadn’t seen in years. Our paths crossed shortly after college when I briefly lived in a city where she was friends with my roommate. Since then, I’ve moved from San Francisco to New Haven, then New York City, and finally Washington, D.C., before returning to New York. Meanwhile, Sara’s journey took her from San Francisco to Boston, then to Nairobi, and back to New York City.
While I always appreciated Sara, we weren’t particularly close, and I lost track of her over time. Recently, she located me on Facebook, leading to a delightful reconnection that significantly boosted my happiness. As it turns out, we live just a few blocks apart!
Philosophers and modern researchers alike agree that happiness hinges on strong relationships. We thrive on close, lasting connections; these relationships provide us with the opportunity to confide, belong, and give and receive support. Studies indicate that having five or more friends to discuss important issues with significantly increases the likelihood of reporting high levels of happiness. During mid-life crises, the absence of genuine friendships often emerges as a common complaint.
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In summary, while face-to-face communication undoubtedly has its benefits, the role of Facebook in maintaining connections and fostering happiness should not be dismissed. It serves as a practical tool for keeping friendships alive and thriving.