As a parent, I often find myself questioning, “Am I really cut out for this?!” It can feel like some families have it all together while I’m stuck in yesterday’s clothes with a sink full of dirty dishes. But then I realized that I was focusing too much on the hiccups in my parenting journey. There are so many small wins happening all around me, quietly affirming that I’m doing a great job! If you can relate to any of these 20 signs, chances are you’re also crushing it in the parenting department:
- You sneaked away the last piece of chocolate when no one was watching because you wanted to spare your kids the temptation.
- You discreetly removed the batteries from that irritating talking teddy bear to save everyone from its incessant “Clap your hands if you’re happy!” chant.
- You let PBS play in the background all day. After all, it’s “Viewers Like You” that keep it going!
- Unlimited texting, coffee breaks, and venting to your partner are your daily sanity savers, helping you stay upbeat and engaged with the kids.
- Those comfy yoga pants make you feel like a superhero, somehow speeding up your chores like dishes and vacuuming!
- Your little one proudly announced their fart in the middle of the grocery store, and then said, “Excuse me, Mommy!” #win
- Your child is still full of energy at bedtime and complains less than 20 times about their day.
- You packed lunch in a simple paper bag, no fancy bento boxes here, just what you could throw together in a rush!
- You managed to brush your hair, get dressed, and have a meal that isn’t neon orange—all before 8 AM. Go you!
- During a toddler tantrum, you stood firm against demands for dinner consisting solely of chocolate pudding. That’s better left for midnight snacks!
- You paid the bills on time, ordered those eye-catching sneakers, and returned library books without any late fees.
- While chatting with your mother-in-law, you asked your child to say hi, and they didn’t make a run for it. #winning
- You agreed when the kids asked to create a mud pit in the yard—because, why not?
- When your child was throwing a fit about getting into the car seat, you kept your cool like a parenting guru.
- Sure, your kid tossed dinner onto the floor for the dog to eat, and then they complained about hunger—you just went with the flow.
- Even if you can’t hit the gym, you find time to chase after the kids, do laundry, wash dishes, and pick up toys multiple times a day. That’s what I call a calorie shred!
- You patiently listened to your child explain why dinosaurs are the coolest while they used their fork as a makeshift claw.
- You always wanted to be a parent, despite not knowing how tough or chaotic it would be. You’re doing your best, and that’s what matters!
- You craft endless tales about what big kids do to motivate your child to tackle simple tasks like dressing themselves and cleaning up.
- No matter the crazy situations your kids throw your way, you prioritize them and find solutions—even when it’s not perfect.
Let’s take a moment to appreciate that there’s no official “Parent of the Year” award out there. Now, about those chocolate pudding cups…
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Summary
Parenting is often filled with self-doubt, but small victories can reassure you that you’re doing a great job. From sneaking treats to handling tantrums, recognize the many ways you are thriving in your role as a parent.