In the hustle of parenting, it’s easy to get lost in our worries about making missteps, forgetting that what our children truly crave is the assurance of our love. A touching note a father penned for his daughter two decades ago has recently made waves online, resonating with many parents.
“Dear Lucy,” the note began, “Can you guess how to spell the sandwich I packed for you today?
- Below Knee
- Blownee
- Bologna
- Baloonee
And now, can you figure out how much I love you? THIS MUCH. Have an amazing day! Love, Dad.”
Now 31 years old, Lucy Johnson has cherished this note from her father, Mike Johnson, keeping it on her fridge for over ten years. Mike confessed to a parenting blog that he’s quite sentimental and decided to save it for her. The simplicity and sweetness of the note struck a chord on social media, illustrating a vital truth: our kids need to feel loved above all else.
Of course, teaching valuable lessons, providing guidance, and giving attention are crucial aspects of parenting. However, it’s the small gestures that often leave lasting impressions on our children. This note isn’t designed for Pinterest perfection or Facebook bragging; it’s a heartfelt reminder of love.
As we reflect on this charming anecdote, it’s clear that Mike’s parenting choices were spot on, evidenced by the strong bond he has with his daughter. If only we could extend the same understanding to one another as parents in real-time.
This week, let’s set aside the latest parenting guidelines about how much time we should spend with our kids and simply write a note, give a hug, or display that artwork they’re proud of in a special place. It’s the little things, after all, that matter most.
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In summary, a father’s simple lunchbox note not only showcases his love but also reminds us of the importance of small gestures in parenting. It encourages us to embrace those moments that our children will cherish forever.