A recent segment on WNYC’s show “The Daily Disconnect” encouraged listeners to participate in a week-long challenge to unplug from their devices. The premise is simple: if you’re constantly glued to your phone, you’re missing out on the chance to feel boredom, which can actually spark creativity. The challenge invites participants to embrace those uncomfortable moments of boredom rather than reaching for social media or emails.
Ironically, I stumbled upon this story while browsing on my laptop, fully aware of my growing dependency on my phone. I find myself fiddling with it constantly, much like I used to with cigarettes, mindlessly switching it from hand to hand. Sometimes, while already scrolling through Facebook, my brain still urges me to check it again. It’s like I’m a monkey with a lever—only now the lever is a smartphone.
When I attempt to reduce my screen time, my mind begins to bargain like an addict: “It’s after five; I can check now,” or “If I make it another thirty minutes without looking, it’s fine to check.” It feels like a never-ending cycle of indulgence. Thus, my partner and I decided to embark on a weekend without screens.
By Friday afternoon, I had sent out a flurry of messages to friends, declaring, “Please call me if you need me this weekend—I won’t be checking emails or texts!” After that, we powered down our devices and placed them on a shelf.
Surprisingly, no one called. Our weekends usually involve casual meet-ups with friends, but since we didn’t reach out beforehand, we found ourselves alone. It seems our friends didn’t feel compelled to call, and to be fair, we didn’t reach out either, suggesting that we’ve become so averse to phone conversations that we’d rather stay silent. My son’s pretend phone calls often feature him yelling, “I’m telling you, it’s not working!”—a clear indication that phones are often used for conflict rather than connection.
Next, we quickly discovered that our entertainment options were severely limited. Without screens, there was no TV or movies, and our music choices were restricted to a handful of CDs we hadn’t used in years. Yet, we dug out our old ’90s albums and played “guess that tune” with our kids. “Is it ‘Free Fallin’?” “Yes! Your turn!”
We also postponed tasks that typically rely on screens, like managing our finances or keeping track of babysitting hours. I even had to write out checks instead of paying online. At the gym, I was left without music, a timer, or even access to my contacts. Since we rely on digital calendars, we spent a frustrating ten minutes counting on our fingers to determine when our son’s birthday was. It felt like we were living in a time capsule.
Living without screens, at least for us, was hardly sustainable. It’s clear that modern life is intertwined with technology; almost everything we need operates through our devices.
However, the emotional benefit was unexpected: I felt significantly less frazzled. On a typical day, I juggle numerous tasks, many of which are digital. For instance, while trying to get my toddler up three flights of stairs, I’m also dealing with countless notifications and messages vying for my attention. This constant barrage of stimuli can leave me irritable and overwhelmed.
During our tech-free weekend, I was able to engage with my kids without the usual distractions clouding our interactions. It was refreshing to spend time with my partner without the constant interruption of digital chatter. While we both enjoy our online interests, having that break allowed us to reconnect in a more meaningful way.
So, my takeaway? It’s worth giving a tech detox a try. It can be surprisingly rejuvenating—just make sure to log off before you dive back in.
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Summary
A weekend without screens can lead to unexpected emotional clarity and deeper connections with family. The experience highlights the overwhelming presence of digital distractions in our lives and the potential benefits of unplugging.