Motherhood and wine seem to be the ultimate duo, don’t they? There are wine sippy cups, specially crafted wines for moms, and plenty of adorable onesies that celebrate the idea that sometimes, we all need a little something to help us unwind. And honestly, who can blame us? Whatever helps you get through those chaotic days is valid. But what about mothers like me who prefer a different way to relax? Why is it so hard to have an open dialogue about it without facing judgment?
So, here I go: Almost every night, once I’ve tucked my kids in, I light up a joint, indulge in a cannabis lollipop (yes, those are safely locked away!), or use a bong. It’s been my go-to way to unwind for the past 15 years, and I’m tired of feeling guilty about it. Smoking pot doesn’t make me a bad mom.
Now, I want to clarify—I don’t use marijuana out of necessity. I don’t have any medical conditions that require a prescription for this herbal remedy. I simply enjoy the relaxation and ease that comes from a nice, mellow high after a long day filled with kids, work, basketball practice, dance lessons, homework, and chores. Just like a glass of wine might offer.
I’m not one to overindulge in alcohol. I don’t misuse medications, and I certainly don’t lounge around all day snacking on junk food in my tie-dye attire. I’m educated and informed. In fact, I’m active in the PTA (though some might argue that could warrant a medical reason for cannabis use, but I digress), I have a thriving career, a happy marriage, and sure, I occasionally forget my child has dance on Wednesdays AND Fridays. But overall, I function well in society—just with a little help from my favorite plant.
Choosing this lifestyle doesn’t compromise my morals or values, nor do I believe it’s leading my kids down a path of delinquency. Pot isn’t a gateway drug; in fact, it’s the healthiest way I’ve discovered to unwind after a hectic day.
When I’ve dared to share this with other mothers, I’ve often been met with disbelief and judgment. One mother even chose not to let her child play at my home because she didn’t trust my judgment. Ironically, this was from someone known for her open marriage and struggles with Percocet addiction.
Thus, I’ve learned to chuckle along with the mommy wine jokes, fitting in with that crowd—just in my own unique way.
So, as bedtime approaches, hand me those Cheetos, please!
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Summary:
In a world where mothers often turn to wine to unwind, some of us prefer cannabis as our go-to relaxation method. This doesn’t make us bad parents; it’s simply a different choice that helps us cope with the challenges of motherhood. While judgment can arise from sharing this lifestyle, it’s important to embrace our decisions without shame.