Every day, I prepare the same lunch for my pre-K child: a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, some fruit, crackers, and juice. I won’t claim it’s the healthiest option out there, but I know he’ll eat it, and that’s what matters to me. I save the adventurous meals for dinner.
However, my #sorrynotsorry attitude doesn’t mean I’m immune to feeling insecure about my lunch choices. I’ve seen those gorgeous bento boxes on Pinterest, and I know there are far more creative and nutritious options for kids. Sometimes, I even dream of sneaking a peek into the other kids’ lunches to see what their parents are packing. The whole lunch packing process can be quite stressful. That’s why a recent incident involving a Colorado mom and her daughter’s lunch really hit home for me.
Megan Johnson sent her 5-year-old daughter to school with a ham and cheese sandwich, string cheese, and a pack of Oreos. Upon returning home, her daughter handed her a note from the teacher that read:
“Dear Parents, it is crucial that all students have a nutritious lunch. In our public school setting, every child should have a fruit, a vegetable, and a substantial snack from home, along with milk. If they have potatoes, the child will also need bread. Lunchables, chips, fruit snacks, and peanut butter are not considered healthy snacks. Your cooperation is essential for our program.”
A fruit, a vegetable, and milk? Who actually sends milk with their child’s lunch? That’s just weird. I’m definitely not going to make my child drink warm milk at lunchtime! The note seemed over the top, and Johnson expressed her frustration to USA Today, stating, “What the school deems healthy is not necessarily what I believe is right for my child. Our dietary choices are between me, her, and our pediatrician—not the school.”
A representative from the private preschool clarified that it’s not their policy to dictate what children can or cannot have in their lunches. They are currently looking into the note, indicating that it was likely sent by the teacher independently. The teacher even removed the Oreos from the child’s lunch!
While I personally wouldn’t send cookies with my child to avoid making others feel bad, I can understand the frustration of receiving a note about a harmless treat. Though the lunch in question wasn’t particularly healthy, it’s not the teacher’s job to monitor every child’s dietary habits unless there’s a concern about their overall food security.
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In summary, it’s essential for parents to feel confident in their lunch packing choices without feeling criticized by educators. Every family has a unique approach to nutrition, and as long as children are well-fed, that should be the priority.