Our family’s journey into home schooling began not long ago. My two children, aged 13 and 10, thrived in public schools until we made the significant decision to transition them to home education earlier this year. After extensive research, heartfelt discussions, and a few tears, my partner and I concluded that this path was what our family truly needed. It has been one of the most rewarding yet chaotic decisions we’ve undertaken, teaching me several invaluable lessons along the way.
1. Home and School Are One and the Same
I often catch myself wondering, “Is this how you behaved in your public school?” multiple times a day. Despite my hopes that my children would treat me like a teacher during study time, they still see me as Mom. This means if they feel like complaining about five math problems, they certainly will. They don’t hesitate to question the relevance of topics, like why they need to learn about quadrilaterals, and bathroom or snack breaks? They take those without asking!
2. Mistakes Are Part of the Process
Initially, we opted for a structured online program that promised a comprehensive school-at-home experience. However, two weeks in, it became clear that it was not a fit for us. My kids were unhappy with the rigid schedule that kept them “in school” from 9 AM to 5 PM. We quickly realized that home schooling should empower us to take charge of their education, not confine them to a screen for hours on end. After returning the materials, we experimented with various curriculums. Now, several months later, we’ve finally found a balance that works for us, reminding me that perfection isn’t necessary; finding what suits our family is what truly matters.
3. Community is Essential
I was initially confident about my kids’ socialization skills due to their background in public schools, but that notion quickly changed. Spending every moment at home with them was taxing for everyone involved. I discovered a local home schooling group that meets weekly, which has been a game changer. These groups organize field trips and fun activities, providing a much-needed outlet for both kids and parents. I even found my tribe of “Misfit Moms,” who embrace imperfection and unconventional choices. My kids have made new friends, and I’ve found camaraderie with other parents who understand the ups and downs of this journey.
4. Encouraging Self-Directed Learning Brings Surprises
After we abandoned the rigid online program, I printed out a list of subjects by grade level. Initially, I presented specific topics for history and science, but the groans from my kids were deafening. Instead, I decided to let them choose from the list. The excitement in their eyes was palpable. This freedom led my 13-year-old to delve into crime scene investigation books, inspired by our shared interest in crime shows, while my 10-year-old launched his own YouTube channel after mastering stop-motion animation with Legos. Allowing them to explore their interests has opened doors to a variety of topics, from dinosaurs to ecosystems and beyond.
5. Embrace the Quirkiness
Since immersing ourselves in the home schooling community, I’ve encountered some incredibly unique kids. From a 15-year-old taking college courses to a preteen passionately advocating for LGBT rights, these children defy conventional norms. They are innovative thinkers and problem solvers, and the environment of home schooling allows them to explore their passions freely. While extraordinary kids exist in public schools, home schooling seems to nurture their individuality even more. I’m proud that my children are part of this wonderfully “weird” group.
Overall, our transition to home schooling has been filled with both challenges and triumphs, but it has become a profound learning experience for the entire family. I anticipate that in a few months, I may have an entirely new set of insights to share about this enriching journey.
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