I genuinely enjoy working out—my way, that is. Just to clarify, I’m not referring to running marathons, meditative yoga, or those high-intensity bootcamp videos that make you question your life choices. Instead, I’m all about hitting the gym at designated times and diving into group fitness classes that get my heart pumping and my feet moving. Think Zumba and similar dance-based workouts.
These classes are my jam! They motivate me (the energy of others keeps me going), challenge me (not in a life-threatening way, but enough to break a good sweat), and, most importantly, they’re a blast. If it’s not fun, count me out. I’m not fond of sweating or discomfort; I need catchy music, lively dance routines, and a supportive crowd to help me power through even the toughest sessions. If I’m going to be drenched in sweat, I want it to be enjoyable!
However, there’s one minor hurdle I face: the full wall of mirrors. They can be both a blessing and a curse. Sure, they help me keep my form in check, but they also serve as a stark reminder of why I’ve been living in oversized tees and sweatpants for the last six months.
Motherhood is to blame, especially after multiple pregnancies. This journey has transformed my body in ways I never anticipated. Let’s be honest—I’m strong and fit. My time at the gym keeps me in decent shape, but the reality is that my post-baby body is different. It’s changed; it feels different, hangs differently, and has stretch marks and curves I never knew existed.
While I don’t entirely despise my body (okay, there are days when I do), the mirror certainly highlights those changes every time I step into the gym. So, here are a few lessons I’ve learned along the way:
1. Invest in a Quality Sports Bra
Let’s be real—those cute, casual cami bras won’t cut it. You need a solid sports bra that offers real support. Trust me, you don’t want any unexpected surprises while you’re busting a move. Get a dependable sports bra and wear it to every class.
2. Embrace the Wiggle
Everything moves—your belly, arms, thighs, you name it. But did you know your back can wiggle too? It’s unsettling when you can feel it jiggling after you stop moving. I’ve found form-fitting, moisture-wicking workout tops that help contain the chaos (kind of like workout Spanx, but without the suffocation). Note: If you have a chest, don’t skip the sports bra; double up for extra support.
3. You Might Experience Some Leakage
Let’s face it—you’re likely to have a little accident. I recommend using the restroom before you leave the house and again upon arrival. Jumping jacks can be your nemesis, and no amount of Kegels might save you. Pro tip: Mention how sweaty you get in class; it’ll divert attention from any mishaps.
4. Old Dance Moves Can Be Painful
Those dance moves you once nailed? They might leave you sore now. Take twerking, for instance. I used to own the dance floor, but after one attempt at channeling my inner J.Lo, I found myself struggling to rise from my seat for a week! Let’s just say that trying to explain a twerking injury to a chiropractor is an experience.
5. Let Go of Others’ Opinions
Once you dive into the rhythm and let loose, you’ll stop caring about the judgment of that younger participant in the back. You might even inspire someone else to embrace their own body’s journey, celebrating the unique beauty that comes with life’s experiences.
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In conclusion, working out as a more experienced mom may come with its own set of challenges, but embracing the journey is what truly matters. It’s about enjoying the process, letting go of self-doubt, and celebrating every wiggle and jiggle that tells the story of your life.