As the day approaches for my eldest to head off to college this fall, it’s widely accepted that I’m bound to be a bundle of emotions during our goodbyes. My family is already scheming ways to pull me away from her dorm room before I make a scene. We’ve already celebrated several milestones, including her last first day of school, last school dance, college tours, and signing her acceptance letter. Each time, she glances at me and asks, “Are you crying again?” I can’t help it, sweet girl.
With high school graduation and college drop-off looming, I knew I needed a game plan to focus on the positive aspects of this transition rather than dwell on the precious moments we’re leaving behind. So, my dear daughter, in addition to my heartfelt gratitude for the opportunities a college education brings, here are my top five reasons to celebrate your graduation and upcoming college journey:
- Discoveries in Your Room
Packing up your room for college is sure to be an adventure of epic proportions, but think of the hidden treasures we’ll unearth! From old photos and letters to childhood books and stuffed animals, this process will be like an archaeological dig. Despite countless spring cleanings, you’ve managed to tuck away all sorts of memories. I can’t wait to relive those moments as we sift through your belongings. - Care Packages from Home
I find myself strangely enthusiastic about preparing care packages for you. There are simple ways I can make your college life a bit easier, whether it’s sending you a surprise snack or a heartfelt note from home. Knowing that a little piece of home can brighten your day is something that fills me with joy. It’s my way of reminding you that you’re loved, even when you’re miles away. - Quality Time for Kid No. 2
Your younger brother, Jake, will finally get his chance to be the sole focus of our attention. While you enjoyed your time as an only child, he’s now stepping into that role during his high school years. Interestingly, he thinks you had it easier and is unsure about being the center of our universe for the next few years. - A Step Toward an Empty Nest
Your dad and I started our family young, which meant putting our couple time on hold for years. While we’re not quite ready for an empty nest, this transition means we’ll soon have more time to explore new adventures together. Just a reminder: our love for each other remains strong after all these years, and we’re excited about what the future holds. - It’s Your Time to Soar
This is your moment to spread your wings and embrace the world! While it may feel daunting at times, the experience of flying solo is ultimately liberating and fulfilling. Remember, if you ever need a safe haven to recharge, our home will always welcome you back with open arms.
In conclusion, while I may shed tears as you embark on this exciting new chapter, I am filled with happiness for all that awaits you.
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