Growing up, I always trusted my mom’s words. In times of uncertainty, I could rely on her honesty, whether it was about faith, love, or career choices. But as I transitioned into motherhood myself, I began to see that sometimes moms sprinkle in a few little fibs for good measure. With my own toddler racing around and a new baby on the way, I’ve come to recognize those small lies my mom told me, and now, I find myself telling them too. Here are five of those comforting whoppers that I’m genuinely thankful for.
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You can handle it all on your own, sweetheart.
My mom probably had a mini heart attack each time I took a leap of faith—like when I rode my bike without training wheels for the first time or nervously walked into a new school. She might have had doubts, but she always pushed me to believe in my own abilities. That confidence helped shape my independence, even when she silently worried behind the scenes. -
They’re just jealous because you shine brighter.
Ah, the trials of being a teenager! Heartbreak and the ever-present cliques can be tough to navigate. I often leaned on my mom during those emotional storms, and she had a knack for turning my tears into laughter. “That guy only broke up with you because he was intimidated,” she’d say, or “Those girls are just envious of your talents.” Whether or not it was true didn’t matter; her words always lifted my spirits. -
You look stunning in that outfit!
Maybe this wasn’t entirely a lie; perhaps my mom genuinely thought I rocked those zebra-striped hats and camo shorts. But regardless of her fashion sense, she understood the importance of self-confidence. By assuring me I looked beautiful, she taught me that it’s not about the outfit; it’s about how I feel in it. -
I will always be proud of you.
Like every parent, my mom faced moments of disappointment with my choices—like when I struggled in college. But her unwavering support made a difference. No matter how rocky the path, she always reminded me that I could never let her down. Her belief in me helped me believe in myself, and that was invaluable. -
I’ll always be here for you.
As an adult, I realize that some promises are hard to keep. But during my childhood, especially through a divorce and the insecurities of middle school, my mom’s reassurance was my anchor. While she may not be physically present forever, the lessons and love she imparted will always resonate in my life. Those little white lies provided comfort when I needed it most.
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In summary, while my mother may have spun a few tales to uplift me, those little lies were often rooted in love and support. They helped shape my confidence and resilience, and now, as I embrace motherhood, I carry those lessons forward for my children.