If I had the opportunity to return to high school, there are definitely a few things I’d approach differently:
- Relish P.E. Class: Imagine having fifty minutes of daily exercise with an enthusiastic coach! I would embrace every second of gym class, whether it’s on the track, in the weight room, or playing tennis. I’d try out for every sport offered, leaving behind any insecurities about my body. I’d tackle physical education with the determination of a marathon runner at the starting line. Bring it on!
- Prioritize Friendships: I’d focus on nurturing my friendships with the girls instead of obsessing over boys. Those moments with my girlfriends would take precedence, as I now realize how rare and precious they are. I’d treasure the unique bond we share, knowing that boyfriends can wait. They’ll still be there when I’m ready, and that’s a comforting thought.
- Appreciate Teachers: Back then, teachers felt like adversaries, but now I understand their dedication to a challenging profession. They make a significant impact on students’ lives despite facing numerous challenges themselves. I’d sit at the front of the classroom, eager to soak up every lesson—whether it’s learning to play the clarinet, exploring drama, or even diving into auto mechanics. I would relish discussions about literature with English teachers, but math? I think I’d politely decline that invitation.
- Embrace My Strengths: I learned early on that math and science weren’t my strong suits, but I was too shy to accept it. It felt like the cool kids only did those subjects. Now, I’d confidently tell my geometry teacher that the chances of needing those formulas are slim—like at 3 a.m. on Christmas Eve while assembling a toy. Instead, I’d head to the library to chat about the classics with the librarian.
- Connect with Everyone: I’d make an effort to engage with all the different groups—the nerds, the goths, the drama club members. I’d want to know their stories, hear their music, and appreciate their unique talents. Think of the incredible friendships I could forge with people I overlooked back then. A chance to connect with them again? Absolutely!
As my son prepares to enter his senior year, I wonder if he’ll leave high school with regrets or “what ifs.” Either way, I’m okay with it. College is just around the corner, a place he’s excited about for reinvention. I can relate; my college years were fantastic (thank goodness for no cell phone cameras).
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In summary, revisiting high school with a fresh perspective would allow for deeper friendships, a greater appreciation for teachers, and a focus on personal strengths rather than societal pressures.