Dear Parent of a High School Senior,
As I write this, I want to clarify that I am not yet a parent of a high school senior; my children are just beginning their journey. My son is starting kindergarten this year, while your child is preparing to close an important chapter in their life. However, with 15 years of experience as a high school teacher, I feel compelled to share some thoughts with you.
Every year, I guide seniors through their college essays, encouraging them to seek your insights. After all, you know them better than anyone else. You understand their unique qualities that can set them apart from other applicants, even if they sometimes seem oblivious to it.
As the November college application deadline looms, I see your kids grappling with anxiety. I hear about the comforting ice cream outings and the cozy hooded sweatshirts you’ve bought emblazoned with their dream schools. Your support means the world to them.
When it comes to their post-graduation paths—be it college, military, work, or travel—your influence is evident. I can hear the pride in their voices when they speak about you, even if they don’t always express it directly.
I also witness the emotional toll this year takes on them. I see them break down under the pressure, but I know you’re there to hold them close. They may cherish those moments of vulnerability, relishing being your “baby” again, even if it’s just for a fleeting moment.
As senioritis strikes around March, I hear from you urging me to keep them on track. I appreciate your support as I strive to guide them toward graduation. They may grumble along the way, but eventually, they often look back and express gratitude—just as I’m sure your child will one day thank you for all you’ve done.
Each year, I see parents like you with tears in their eyes, reflecting on the bittersweet reality of sending their child into the world. I can’t help but think of my little boy at home, the one with gray eyes, and how soon it will be my turn to experience this transition.
On graduation day, I often find myself feeling overwhelmed, reluctant to say goodbye. Each farewell symbolizes so much: the passing of another year, the growth of my own children, and the brave steps your children are taking into the unknown.
So, thank you. Thank you for nurturing these remarkable young people and for entrusting them to me during their final year of high school. Thank you for allowing me to learn from your parenting. I have gained invaluable insights by observing how you’ve guided your children.
As you embark on this final year of high school, rest assured that I am here to support you. I understand the panics, the tears, and the struggles of senioritis. I keep a stash of tissues and chocolate in my desk because, over the years, I’ve found that they can help ease many challenges. Your phone calls and emails are always welcome, and I will certainly reach out if I need your assistance. I genuinely care about your child and am dedicated to ensuring they are prepared for the world beyond your embrace.
This journey of parenting a high school senior may seem daunting, but remember, you are not alone. Enjoy this special year. I know that when you look at them, you see those little ones they once were, just as I see my small children in the faces of your seniors. We are united in this beautiful dance of parenting and teaching. As you lead the way, I feel privileged to be part of your child’s educational experience.
With warm regards,
A High School English Teacher