Brexting: The Controversy Surrounding Breastfeeding and Texting

Gather ‘round, Moms! It seems like the internet is buzzing yet again, this time over the term “brexting,” which refers to the practice of breastfeeding while texting. This latest trend has sparked a wave of criticism, suggesting that moms who check their phones during nursing are somehow failing their babies.

The Debate Among Moms

The concept has been circulating in parenting forums for some time, with many moms debating the potential drawbacks of scrolling through social media or sending emails while nursing. Recently, experts have joined the conversation, with some medical professionals expressing concern that this behavior could hinder the important bonding moments between mother and child.

Expert Insights

Dr. Emily Hart, a psychologist focused on maternal mental health, recently shared insights on an episode of Southern California Public Radio (SCPR). She warned that “distracted mothers”—a term now used to describe those who dare to multitask while nursing—might miss important cues from their babies, such as whether they are full or still hungry, or if their latch is secure. She emphasized that if a baby tries to engage with their mom through sounds or smiles and feels ignored, it could lead to issues with attachment later on.

The Reality of New Motherhood

Imagine a new mom, still navigating the challenges of early motherhood. She might find herself in a Facebook group seeking support during a tough feeding session, or perhaps she checks Instagram to relieve some stress. Maybe she even plays a quick game to stay alert during those exhausting early weeks. But here come the “brexting” critics, ready to admonish her for not being fully present. In fact, some nurses in California hospitals have taken it upon themselves to advise nursing mothers about their phone use, warning that it could harm the bonding process. If someone tried to lecture me about my phone use while I was in the hospital, I’d probably give them an eye-roll and move on!

A Call for Understanding

Here’s a thought: instead of finding new ways to make moms feel guilty for simply being human, let’s recognize that feeding happens frequently, and sometimes it’s necessary to juggle other responsibilities. Rather than focusing on the alleged dangers of phone distractions during nursing, how about conducting studies on the mental toll of parenting in an age where every action seems scrutinized? I suspect the findings would be eye-opening.

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Conclusion

In summary, let’s stop the shaming and start supporting each other. Parenting is challenging enough without the added pressure of constant judgment. Moms, you’re doing an amazing job, and it’s okay to need a moment for yourself—even while breastfeeding.