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Navigating School Lockdown Drills with My Autistic Child
Each month, like clockwork, I receive a text from my child’s school notifying me that they’ve conducted their regular lockdown drill. This message assures me that it’s just practice, so there’s no need to worry. Yet, I can’t help but feel anxious. It’s a stark reminder of how profoundly my son’s autism influences his daily life.
I have genuine fears about his safety during these drills, and it’s due to his unique perspective on the world. While teachers guide their students into closets or restrooms, everyone else is silent; my son, however, is talking—excitedly announcing that a surprise is coming. His autism, combined with his innocent outlook, leads him to believe this is a fun game of hide-and-seek or an impromptu party. Rather than staying quiet, he loud-whispers to everyone around him to “Be quiet!” without grasping that his own voice could compromise their safety.
This reality fills me with frustration. I despise that this is part of his school experience. The thought that his communication challenges could inadvertently pose a risk not only to him but to his classmates is heartbreaking. If he speaks out, he could potentially expose their hiding place to someone with harmful intentions. It’s a heavy burden to bear, and I wish it wasn’t something we had to think about.
When his teacher first shared this with me, I was devastated. She seemed unfazed, and it appeared my son wasn’t the only one struggling with the concept. He simply doesn’t understand that this drill is about ensuring his safety. I was reassured that they would work on this skill, but part of me feels angry that this even has to be part of his life. Why do we have to worry about such things? I had hoped that learning life skills meant preparing for independence, not just for survival.
I fervently hope I never have to confront the reality of such a situation. Yet, every month, as that text arrives, I find myself grappling with these fears anew. It’s a complex layer of autism that many might not consider until it’s thrust into their lives.
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In summary, while lockdown drills are a necessary precaution, they also highlight the unique challenges faced by children with autism. It’s a constant reminder of the delicate balance between safety and the realities of living with a developmental disorder.