Parenting is no walk in the park. We pour our hearts, time, and energy into our children because we love them deeply. However, there are days when motherhood can feel overwhelming. If you’re reading this, you’re likely familiar with the challenges of being a mom.
Just the other day, I caught up with a high school friend, a brilliant woman with unwavering loyalty. Now a mother, she has faced judgment from others, which sparked my fury. It struck me that moms deserve daily affirmations to remind ourselves of our strength and resilience. We are incredible, and we need to own that.
Momfirmations
Here are some powerful affirmations, or “Momfirmations,” that you can recite each morning while getting ready, nursing, or even during those brief moments of quiet.
- “I’m an unstoppable force.” I created life! Whether I gave birth, adopted, or supported someone else in their journey to parenthood, I’ve done something remarkable. That makes me an unstoppable force.
- “I matter too.” Once we become mothers, it often feels like we disappear behind our kids’ needs. Remember, you are a person with emotions and deserve love and care, just like everyone else. Morrissey would agree, and that’s a truth worth holding onto.
- “They don’t know my story.” When strangers give you judgmental looks, remind yourself, “They don’t know my journey.” If your child is having a tough moment, and someone glances your way, ask yourself if they have any gum or a drink to share. If not, let them go about their day without your energy.
- “Their understanding is limited.” This is for those friends who can’t grasp the chaos of motherhood. It’s not that they’re bad; it’s just that they haven’t walked in your shoes. You’re multitasking like a pro while they’re busy worrying about their next Instagram post. Feel free to create some distance from those who don’t resonate with your reality.
- “I can do this. I will succeed. I’m exceptional.” When self-doubt creeps in, remember that your children look up to you. You are their anchor, and they wouldn’t be thriving without your guidance. You’ve prepared meals, kept them safe, and managed life’s little crises. You are a treasure, a shining star in their universe.
The essence of motherhood is not a secret; it’s woven into the beautiful moments. Those instances when your little one smiles at you, calls you “Mama,” or enjoys the meal you prepared—those are the gems. When someone acknowledges your parenting skills, and you feel a surge of pride despite your doubts, cherish that. Keep a mental scrapbook of these uplifting experiences to lean on during tougher days. Trust me, you’ve got this!
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In summary, motherhood is filled with challenges and triumphs. By embracing affirmations, we can uplift ourselves and acknowledge our extraordinary roles. Remember, you are not alone on this journey.