You’d think that a loud rock concert at 10 p.m. wouldn’t be the ideal spot for a toddler—yet here we are. Over the weekend, a couple made a questionable decision by bringing their young child to a Rasputina concert and placing him on stage for a better view. The aftermath? Let’s just say it was anything but smooth.
In a twist of events, the band’s lead singer, Luna, confronted the parents about their choice, prompting them to claim they were shamed for breastfeeding—though the issue of breastfeeding was never brought up by the performer. This sparked a heated debate online about what’s deemed acceptable at a live show.
Generally, live performances are known for their loud music, amplified by speakers and instruments, making them unsuitable for young children. Rasputina’s music, known for its intensity, is not exactly toddler-friendly. Yet, the parents defended their actions, insisting they had been at the venue for hours, including during the opening act, as if that somehow justified setting a child on stage.
While the performer may have reacted in disbelief upon seeing a toddler so close to the speakers, some believe her comments were meant to be humorous rather than critical. The parents, however, took offense, claiming their breastfeeding was the real issue. The truth is, the situation wasn’t about breastfeeding but about common sense.
Supporters of the parents took to social media, arguing that public events should be inclusive of families, while others firmly stated that placing a child on stage at a rock concert crosses a line. As one commenter put it, “No matter the reason, a child doesn’t belong on stage at a concert!”
Introducing children to live music can be a wonderful experience, but there’s a time and place for everything. An all-ages event doesn’t mean bringing toddlers to a 10 p.m. show. For practical parenting advice, check out our post on home insemination and family life, or learn more about in vitro fertilization as an excellent resource for pregnancy.
In summary, while it’s commendable to expose kids to music, it’s essential to consider the appropriateness of the setting. Keeping toddlers away from late-night concerts is just common sense.