Dear Kids,
As I sit down to write this, you’re both still quite young—just 18 months and 3 years old. Yet, I can already see how adept you are with technology, easily navigating tablets in ways that leave me amazed. You belong to a generation immersed in a digital world, where gadgets are omnipresent.
When I was your age, we didn’t have the luxury of apps or smartphones. We made do without constant internet access or social media. Our phones were tethered to the wall, and if we needed to make a call away from home, we relied on something called a “payphone.” The thrill of learning came from exploring libraries, thumbing through card catalogs, and flipping through encyclopedias, not from a quick Google search.
Navigating the world was different too—no GPS for directions, just big, unwieldy paper maps that were nearly impossible to refold. Who knows what advances await you by the time you read this—perhaps you’ll be too busy managing a robot uprising to give this letter your full attention! Still, here are some thoughts on thriving in a world with immediate access to everything:
Unplug Wisely.
While smartphones, video games, and streaming shows can be fun, moderation is key. You’re unlikely to reminisce about a viral post, but you will cherish the memories made when you’re truly present.
Engage with Others.
In this age of smartphones, I’ve seen groups of teens hang out together yet remain glued to their screens, missing out on genuine connection. It’s essential to have meaningful conversations and foster real relationships.
Practice Good Manners.
Always treat others the way you wish to be treated. A simple smile and a positive attitude can make a significant difference. Remember to say “please” and “thank you,” and promote kindness wherever you go.
Stay Authentic Online.
Anonymity can lead to unkind behavior. Just because you’re behind a screen doesn’t mean you should say hurtful things. Follow the golden rule—be respectful in all interactions.
Be Your Own Advocate.
The internet can be a breeding ground for negativity, especially in comment sections. Focus on uplifting discussions, and know which battles are worth fighting for.
Make Smart Choices.
Think about the long-term consequences of your online actions. Be cautious about what you share and remember that some things are better left private, like intimate photos.
Cultivate a Love for Reading.
Seek out books, preferably printed ones, if they still exist! Reading can ignite your passion for stories and knowledge, so even if it feels tedious, persevere until you find that book that captivates you.
Master the Art of Writing.
In a world filled with emojis and acronyms, strong written communication is invaluable. Good spelling, grammar, and a rich vocabulary are essential skills that will serve you well—so avoid shortcuts like “u” for “you” outside of texting.
Discover What Brings You Joy.
Whether it’s music, art, or something else entirely, nurture your creative side. Surround yourself with friends who uplift you, inspire you, and bring laughter into your life.
Seek Adventure.
Experience the world firsthand! Don’t just scroll through pictures—get outside, feel the earth beneath your feet, and allow yourself to marvel at the world around you.
While you can find answers at the tap of a finger, I hope you remain curious and eager to explore life beyond the screen. Embrace experiences, and who knows? Maybe by the time you read this, teleportation or flying cars will be a reality, opening up even more possibilities for adventure.
With all my love,
Mom
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Summary:
This heartfelt letter encourages future teens to embrace technology while also prioritizing real-life connections, practicing good manners, and fostering creativity. It emphasizes the importance of being present, engaging with the world, and making thoughtful choices in a digital age.