Updated: November 12, 2015
NEW YORK, NY – NOVEMBER 05: Aziz Ansari (L) and Shoukath Ansari attend the premiere of “Master of None” at AMC Loews 19th Street East 6 Theater on November 5, 2015, in New York City. (Photo by Noam Galai/Getty Images)
Aziz Ansari, best known for his role as Tom Haverford on NBC’s Parks and Recreation, took to Facebook recently to pay a touching tribute to his parents that has left many older children in tears. His heartfelt message is a poignant reminder to cherish our parents while we still can.
In his new Netflix series, Master of None, Aziz features his real-life parents. On Instagram, he expressed deep gratitude for the sacrifices they made for him. Ansari shared that his father, a dedicated doctor, chose to spend most of his vacation time filming the show to create lasting memories together. After appearing on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, Aziz’s father remarked, “This is all fun and I liked acting in the show, but I really just did it so I could spend more time with you.” This simple statement brought Aziz to tears as he reflected on the immense love and support his father has always shown him.
He admitted feeling guilty for the times he chose to stay in New York instead of visiting his parents in South Carolina. “Not to sound cheesy, but if your parents have been good to you, do something nice for them,” he urged. “They likely love you more than you realize.”
Many of us can relate to taking our parents for granted at times. As we navigate life, we often learn that time is fleeting and that we must show appreciation for those who care for us—a realization that is a true gift if recognized early on.
Ansari revealed that he and his parents have had their emotional barriers but are working to improve their relationship. He expressed concern when hearing about friends of his father facing serious health issues, reminding us that our parents won’t be around forever. It’s not a pleasant thought, but it’s a reality we must confront.
Family dynamics can be complicated, filled with struggles and misunderstandings. It’s refreshing to see someone like Aziz open up about these challenges. Personally, I lost my father seven years ago. I recall one evening working as a bartender when my phone buzzed with “Dad” flashing on the screen. I hesitated to answer, thinking I wasn’t in the mood for a chat. Little did I know, the next day he would suffer a catastrophic stroke, and that call would be my last opportunity to hear his voice. Regret has lingered since, a reminder to cherish those moments.
“Treasure and love these people while you can,” Ansari advises. It might sound simple, but it’s a vital lesson we all need to remember.
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In summary, Aziz Ansari’s tribute to his parents serves as a poignant reminder for us all to appreciate the love and sacrifices our families make. Life is short, and the time we have together is invaluable.