In recent discussions about generational differences, many argue that the resilience shown by previous generations—those who weathered the World Wars and the Great Depression—has been lost on today’s youth. Critics suggest that the current generation is overly pampered, with a troubling rise in entitlement and sensitivity.
Many universities have begun to recognize this troubling trend of entitlement among students. Parents of college students often reach out to faculty members to express their dissatisfaction when their adult children feel unhappy or slighted. What has happened to personal responsibility and a strong work ethic? There was a time when young adults displayed courage and commitment, stepping up to serve their country; today, however, many students seem to struggle with the slightest criticism.
Dr. Nathaniel Reed, President of Willow Creek University, has voiced his concerns in a thought-provoking open letter titled “This Is Not a Daycare! It’s a University!” expressing frustration with the self-centered attitudes of some students. In a world increasingly ruled by political correctness, Dr. Reed argues that we have gone too far in shielding students from discomfort. He points out that whenever students feel slighted, they often see themselves as victims, labeling anyone who challenges them as ‘haters’ or ‘oppressors.’
While Dr. Reed does not condone any form of discrimination or hatred, he raises an important question about the potential over-sensitivity of today’s youth. He suggests that rather than immediately reacting to criticism with offense, students should take a moment to reflect on whether there’s merit in the feedback. His perspective ties into broader themes of personal growth and maturity, which can benefit all individuals, regardless of their background.
Even figures like former President Obama have acknowledged that we are nurturing a generation that may struggle to stand on their own. As parents, our instinct is to protect our children, but it’s equally essential to equip them with the tools they need to thrive as independent adults. Unfortunately, some parents might be inadvertently fostering a sense of victimhood in their children, teaching them that minor grievances equate to serious injustices.
It’s important to strike a balance when it comes to political correctness. For instance, while it’s essential to be respectful and accurate in our language, as seen in the renaming of teams and the use of inclusive terms, the line can sometimes feel blurred. Comedians like Chris Rock and Jerry Seinfeld have even stepped back from performing at universities due to concerns about political backlash—doesn’t humor still play a vital role in our lives, especially in challenging times?
To the college students out there: not every disagreement or criticism makes you a victim. There are genuine cases of victimization that deserve attention, but feeling slighted over a low grade does not fall into that category. You absolutely have the right to advocate for yourself if you believe you’ve been wronged, but it’s crucial to approach these situations maturely and respectfully.
As Dr. Reed reminds us, “This is a place where you will quickly learn that you need to grow up.” College should be about personal development and, yes, having a little fun along the way. Be grateful for the opportunities you have today; as my grandmother often reminded me, past generations faced far more significant challenges, and they emerged stronger for it.
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In summary, Dr. Reed’s call for maturity among students is a reminder that growing up involves more than just age; it requires resilience, accountability, and the ability to learn from criticism without becoming defensive.