I’m ready for our conversation, and I can already picture the scene. You’ll be sitting across from me, carefully reviewing my resume, which outlines my impressive 11-year career in finance, including my degrees and professional certifications. The years from 1999 to 2013 are well documented, but then you’ll notice the gap starting in 2013, and I can sense a pause will fill the room.
From your perspective, it may seem like I was a successful career woman who suddenly “opted out” to focus on my kids, a term made popular by writer Lisa Parker in 2003. You might think that re-entering the corporate world will be an uphill battle for me, and while the challenge is real, the narrative surrounding my absence is outdated.
Our culture’s perception of stay-at-home parents, particularly mothers, is stuck in the past. It often conjures images from 1950s sitcoms—house dresses, indulgent snacks, and daytime TV. In reality, my full-time work life back then had its own share of aimless web surfing, and I assure you that my current role as a parent has been nothing short of demanding.
Changing the Conversation
Changing the conversation about stay-at-home parents starts with you asking me about my experience during these years. I’m not advocating for you to question, “What did you do all day?” with that skeptical eyebrow raise. I find that question almost as disheartening as if you assumed my answer was “Nothing.”
Instead, if you simply inquire whether I’d like to discuss my recent years, I’d be more than happy to share. First off, let me clarify that being a stay-at-home parent doesn’t mean I’ve been cut off from the world. With the Internet and a constant news cycle, I’ve kept up with market trends and can certainly hold my own in discussions.
Furthermore, managing a household requires skills that are highly applicable in the workplace: budgeting, hiring, and, yes, even firing when necessary. I’ve navigated conflicts where both parties are being unreasonable, multitasked like a pro, and constantly made decisions that demand creativity. And let’s not forget the hours spent negotiating with my strong-willed child—it’s often more challenging than negotiating with corporations!
Recognizing Valuable Traits
It’s crucial to recognize that once employees become parents, they are often viewed through a lens that focuses solely on the time away from work. This perspective can lead to a bias that overlooks the valuable traits that parenting cultivates. From my observations in my previous job, I noticed that parent-workers tend to be more patient and compassionate, often making decisions more thoughtfully.
Let’s not overlook the incredible amount of work that dedicated parents put into fundraising for schools, organizing events, and managing communications between parents and teachers. The skills developed in these roles—networking, vendor management, data organization, and presentation capabilities—are significant yet often go unrecognized.
My Journey
If you continue to view my time away from the office as a setback, you’ll miss the opportunity to see how my experiences have actually prepared me for a return to the workforce. My time at home wasn’t about “opting out” but rather about developing skills that align perfectly with the needs of your organization.
So, dear interviewer, if you take the time to ask, you’ll find that my journey has been rich with experience and growth that is entirely relevant to the position we’re discussing.
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Conclusion
In summary, my experience as a stay-at-home parent has equipped me with invaluable skills that can enhance my contributions in the workplace. It’s time to rethink the narrative around work gaps and recognize the relevance of parenting in professional settings.