As the New Year rolls in, many of us are inspired by lists of lofty goals. I recently came across a friend’s post detailing her ambitious resolutions: read 65 books, swim every Tuesday night, try a recipe from each cookbook she owns, and organize one room in her house every month. She even checked into her gym—her daily routine, in fact—feeling “determined.”
I couldn’t help but chuckle. While her list sounds lovely, I quickly realized that my reality as a mom makes such resolutions a bit, well, challenging.
Let’s break down her goals. 65 books? Sure, I’d love to read that many—if only they weren’t the same handful of children’s stories my son insists on revisiting night after night. As for swimming at a set time, my attempts at multitasking in the bathroom while my son splashes around in the tub hardly count as a swim class.
Cooking from every cookbook? If there’s a section for mac and cheese or pizza, then I’ve already conquered that challenge countless times! And organizing a room each month? That sounds delightful, but I can barely keep the dining table clear for a meal, let alone tackle an entire room.
Clearly, my friend’s resolutions reflect a world without kids, and that’s perfectly okay. It’s a reminder that, as moms, we might need to set our own, more realistic challenges. So, I’ve come up with my own list:
- Aim for a Daily Shower: Fresh hair is great, but let’s be honest; waking up early enough to shower before the kids take over is a challenge. Maybe I’ll aim for every other day? That sounds doable.
- Dress Up (Sometimes): Sure, my husband would appreciate it if I didn’t live in yoga pants. But let’s face it; after the holiday indulgences, stepping into anything other than stretchy pants might require some serious motivation.
- Stay Hydrated: Water is essential, but let’s get real—if I drink more wine, I’m technically achieving this goal, right? DONE.
- Exercise Regularly: Let’s just be honest, this one is probably not happening.
Instead, I think I’ll focus on something more uplifting: embracing who I am and recognizing my efforts as a mom. After all, I’m doing just fine.
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Summary:
As a mom, it’s essential to set realistic resolutions that fit into our busy lives. Instead of lofty goals, let’s focus on simpler challenges that bring joy and acceptance. Whether it’s aiming for a shower every other day, occasionally dressing up, or just being kinder to ourselves, it’s about embracing the moment.