Pregnancy is a beautiful journey filled with excitement as families prepare to welcome a new member. But what happens when that new addition is another boy? As I anticipate the arrival of my third son, I’ve noticed that some people seem to think it’s their duty to express disappointment. So, to help others navigate these conversations, here are ten things you definitely shouldn’t say to a mom expecting her third boy.
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Oh, that’s alright, dear.
Thanks for pointing out the obvious while simultaneously undermining my excitement. I’m not just okay; I’m overjoyed! And please, skip the pet names. -
Don’t worry, your next one will be a girl!
I’m not worried at all! This isn’t a gamble. I’m thrilled about my son, and there’s no “next” on the horizon. -
Were you hoping for a girl?
Not at all! That’s a private matter, and honestly, it’s none of your business. -
Sons are known to adore their moms.
That’s comforting! But I hope daughters do the same. I can’t imagine a lifetime with a child who doesn’t love me. -
Looks like you’ll be the queen of your castle!
I appreciate the sentiment, but whether I have boys or girls, my reign doesn’t depend on their gender. -
You should try for a girl next time!
I really don’t “have to” do anything, especially not when it comes to a human life. This isn’t a casual decision; it’s a serious commitment. -
Moms of boys are unique!
How exactly is that special? I’m already feeling special as I embrace my role as a mother. -
At least they can share clothes!
What a relief! I was really worried about the clothing situation, not to mention the financial implications of raising kids. -
Three boys will certainly keep you on your toes!
You don’t say? Any three kids will do that, regardless of gender. -
Just think about future granddaughters!
Yes, I can dream about future granddaughters while my three rambunctious boys are running wild. But I wouldn’t trade the joy of their childhood for anything.
Let me be clear: I am beyond excited to welcome my third son into our family. He is as cherished as my first two boys, maybe even more so since I know what joys to expect. I’m not lamenting a lost desire for a girl. So instead of pity, I’d love for others to share in our joy and keep their unsolicited opinions to themselves.
If you’re interested in exploring more about home insemination methods and related topics, you can check out this insightful post on intracervical insemination. For those seeking the right tools for the journey, Cryobaby’s home insemination kit is a great resource. And for comprehensive guidance on pregnancy and insemination, this resource from ASRM is invaluable.
In summary, let’s celebrate the joy of new life and respect the choices of expectant parents. Words matter, and a little kindness goes a long way.