In the summer of 2013, I excitedly dropped my daughter off for a weeklong horse camp at a local farm. At just seven years old, she was enamored with horses, and my husband and I thought it would be the perfect birthday gift. As she joyfully skipped toward the stables, I couldn’t wait for three glorious hours of shopping at Target. But things took a terrifying turn.
Just twenty minutes into my shopping spree, I noticed multiple missed calls from an unfamiliar number. As I was piecing together who it might be, my phone rang again—it was the camp director. “You need to come now,” she said urgently. “Your daughter is having a severe allergic reaction. She can’t breathe and is swelling up.”
Without a moment’s hesitation, I dropped my coffee and raced back to the camp.
Upon arriving, I saw my daughter struggling to breathe, her face swollen and covered in hives. Panic surged through me. My little girl was experiencing anaphylaxis, and we had no clue she was allergic to horses.
As an ICU nurse, I have handled countless emergencies with a calm demeanor. However, this was different; it was my child in crisis. In my panic, I made a grave error: I scooped her into the car and sped toward our doctor’s office. As she gasped for air, all my professional training evaporated. By the time we arrived at the clinic, I realized how much I had worsened the situation by not waiting for the emergency services.
In the days that followed, we faced a whirlwind of medications, steroid treatments, and allergy tests. The results revealed a life-threatening allergy not only to horses but also to a long list of foods and environmental triggers. Overnight, we became the parents of a child with serious medical challenges that had gone unnoticed until that pivotal moment.
In the months that followed, we armed ourselves with EpiPens and a wealth of knowledge. We educated family, babysitters, and close friends on how to administer an epinephrine injection. Collaborating with her school staff, we developed a care plan that would keep her safe during the school day. Most importantly, we empowered our daughter with the knowledge to recognize her symptoms and communicate her needs. We practiced scenarios and established a hand gesture she could use if words failed her.
Navigating the world of allergies can sometimes feel like a social minefield. Allergies have become a hot topic, with many parents facing challenges in accommodating their children’s dietary restrictions. As the parent of a child with allergies, I consciously avoid demanding special treatment. If we attend a gathering and my daughter can’t eat something, she simply embraces the moment with her friends instead of dwelling on what she’s missing. I discreetly send safe snacks to school when celebrations arise. We strive to own her allergies as our responsibility rather than expecting others to manage them.
People often express surprise at her extensive list of allergies because we don’t make them the focal point of our lives. Her allergies are just one small part of who she is. I’d much rather share stories of her accomplishments, like how she dominated the 400m race or how adorable she looks in her new glasses. While I sometimes connect with other parents facing similar challenges, I prefer discussing my writing or my shopping trips at Target—especially the ones not interrupted by a panic.
If you ever find yourself facing an allergic reaction with your child, keep these tips in mind:
- Call 911. Allow professionals to handle the driving while you focus on your child.
- Determine what your child has eaten and how much, as this information can be crucial at the hospital.
- Keep an updated record of your child’s height and weight on your phone for accurate dosing of emergency medications.
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In summary, our journey of discovery surrounding my daughter’s allergies has turned into an empowering experience. By educating ourselves and her, we make her allergies our shared responsibility, ensuring she is equipped for the challenges ahead.