I first experienced labor at 35 weeks and found myself spending the night in the hospital. My contractions stalled, and I remained dilated at 4 centimeters. After two weeks with no progress (and feeling like my twins were ready to drop at any moment), I endured another 12 hours of excruciating contractions. Ultimately, I found myself in the C-section room. While I had researched the procedure and its recovery, several elements caught me off guard.
1. Peeing Became a Challenge.
After the catheter was removed post-surgery, I assumed I’d just naturally feel the urge to pee. Fast forward six hours, and my bladder was dangerously full from the saline they kept pumping into me. I had to endure the discomfort of having the catheter reinserted (ouch). The next 24 hours turned into a pee-watch, with nurses waking me regularly to encourage me to go, even resorting to turning on the tap to inspire some action.
2. Getting Out of Bed Was Tougher Than Anticipated.
The effort required to get out of bed was far more challenging than I had expected. I had to master a technique of rolling to my side, scooting forward, and pushing myself up without any assistance from others. It turns out that our abdominal muscles do a lot more than we often realize!
3. Thirst Was Unbearable.
I had never experienced thirst like this before, yet I was forbidden to drink any water after the surgery. The rationale was that if I got sick or coughed, it could cause serious damage. After much persuasion, I managed to convince a nurse to give me ice chips, which I savored for hours. The moment I was finally allowed to drink water felt like pure bliss.
4. The Shakes Were Intense.
I was aware I might shake after the babies were born, but I underestimated how severe it would be. My entire body was in full spasm during the procedure, and it continued for hours afterward. It was just me, my ice chips, and an uncontrollable shaking episode in the dark post-surgery.
5. A Flood of Medications.
I lost track of how many different medications I was given, but I remember the pattern: one injection on the left, one on the right, and one under the tongue. It was a bit of a blur, and I was grateful my husband was there to witness the chaos. My hopes for a drug-free birth vanished long before.
6. Postpartum Belly Surprise.
My belly was quite pronounced after the surgery, a combination of carrying twins and gas getting trapped during the procedure. I had no idea that cutting through my abdominal muscles would result in such a bulge. I still look about three months pregnant and have had to deal with the comments from well-meaning folks asking if I’m expecting again.
7. I Almost Slept Through It.
As a light sleeper, I was shocked that I felt so drowsy in the operating room. Despite the bright lights and the chaos around me, I struggled to keep my eyes open. After being awake for 48 hours and under medication, I was surprised at how strong the urge to sleep was during such a critical moment.
8. Numbness Lingers.
The area around my incision remained numb, and I was told this could last for a year or more. I found myself staring in the mirror, poking at the area above my incision, fascinated by the numbness and the loose skin.
9. My Husband’s Trauma.
My husband got an unexpected glimpse behind the curtain during the operation, witnessing things he can’t unsee. I experienced hemorrhaging—a common occurrence—and my uterus was quite large due to carrying twins. They even had to remove it temporarily to manage the bleeding.
10. Husband Had to Wait.
My husband couldn’t join me in the operating room right away as they needed to stabilize me first. I lay there, half-numb, listening to the medical staff discuss their weekend plans while eagerly awaiting his arrival.
If you’re anticipating a C-section (which seems common in the U.S.) or planning one, don’t worry too much. The worst lasts only about a week. You’ll relearn how to walk, and eventually, you will be able to laugh and cough without grimacing. Plus, you’ll end up with a remarkable scar, a brief affair with pain medication, and a tummy that feels like Cool Whip. And, of course, you’ll have at least one beautiful baby.
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Summary:
Having a C-section can be full of unexpected experiences, from the struggle to pee post-surgery to the surprising numbness around the incision. The journey includes mastering getting in and out of bed, coping with intense thirst, and dealing with a postpartum belly. While it might seem daunting, the recovery is manageable, and the ultimate reward is your beautiful baby.