Since becoming a parent, my life has taken some surprising turns. I’ve shifted my mindset and daily habits in ways I never thought possible, all to set an example for my kids. I’ve tapped into my inner strength, demonstrating confidence in who I am, how I care for my body, and the work I do. I strive to show them my commitment to giving my best effort and embracing responsibility. I emphasize the importance of passion, a strong work ethic, and resilience. Above all, I aim to teach them that love and family are what truly matter.
However, I’ve come to realize that in all my efforts, I’ve overlooked a crucial lesson: embracing imperfection is part of being human, and that’s perfectly fine. I’m not perfect, and I fully acknowledge that. I have my insecurities, and my daily life often feels like a quest for improvement rather than a display of success. My children, a 5-year-old and a 1-and-a-half-year-old, see me as capable of anything, believing that their mom can conquer it all. This week, our beloved nanny, who had been with us for four years, visited for a brief time before heading home. As we drove away, I noticed my son, with tears welling in his eyes, clearly missing her. I climbed into the backseat to comfort him, and as he saw my tears, he was shocked. It struck me that my children had never witnessed me cry before.
In that moment, I understood that to be a true role model, I must also reveal my vulnerabilities. I gently assured him that it’s okay to cry and that I also experience sadness. He stared at me, unsure, but soon found comfort as I smiled through my tears.
In striving to be a perfect example for my kids, I realized I have missed showcasing a vital aspect of life: failure and imperfection. So I’ve made a new parenting commitment: to show my children the complete picture of life. I want them to understand that challenges, disappointments, and tears are all part of the journey. If I don’t share my struggles, I can’t demonstrate how to rebuild confidence. Without sharing my mistakes, I can’t truly teach them about strength. I need to show them that pursuing responsibilities and passions sometimes means doing things we don’t enjoy. By honestly discussing my challenges, I can illustrate the importance of hard work and resilience.
Ultimately, I want my kids to know that it’s okay to make mistakes—that we can always try again tomorrow. This lesson is just as crucial as any other I hope to impart.
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