Every summer for nearly twenty years, we’ve packed up and headed to a family cabin nestled in the Blue Ridge Mountains. It’s a refreshing break from our busy life in the Deep South, and the stunning scenery combined with the relaxed pace of life has created countless cherished summer memories. However, there’s one catch—there’s no internet.
No Wi-Fi? Nope. Hot dogs? Absolutely. Mobile data? We’re limited to the bare minimum, which we ration like precious goods during wartime. And by “emergency,” I mean, “Can someone quickly look up who got eliminated on the latest season of The Bachelorette?” Welcome to our summer of disconnection. Is it painful? A bit. Is it invaluable? Yes, indeed.
The saying “You don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone” rings especially true in our hyper-connected world. When our access to endless information and entertainment is suddenly cut off, it feels like losing a limb. The first few days without the internet resemble detoxing. My kids wander around with vacant expressions, arms hanging limply at their sides, their minds struggling to reconnect the synapses that had relied on constant digital stimulation.
They rush to the TV only to find basic cable, missing the luxury of pausing or binge-watching their favorite shows. Commercials? What a foreign concept! The complaints of “I’m bored!” and “What do we do now?” echo through the house as they seek a substitute for their lost digital “crutch.”
Then, something incredible happens. They begin to remember how to entertain themselves without the help of screens. I join them, picking up a book and lying under a tree, allowing myself to feel like it’s 1982—all while sipping on a can of Tab.
When freed from constant distractions, my children start to explore their surroundings, and it’s truly amazing to watch. Moments of boredom transform into sparks of creativity, pushing them to get up and invent their own fun. Sure, there are board games and outdoor games, but in between, they discover the magic of “ordinary nothingness.” During this time, they engage in imaginative play, which child development experts agree is essential for real growth and learning.
Moreover, they learn to appreciate their own company and realize that not every moment needs to be captured or shared. These moments are theirs, unfiltered and pure, connecting them to the real world around them.
As summer draws to a close and we return home, the first thing everyone does is rush to their rooms to reconnect online. However, a realization hits: we didn’t really miss out on much. A few minutes of scrolling reveals that most of what we needed to know, we already knew. The important connections remained intact, and the time we once spent glued to screens was instead filled with genuine experiences.
Interestingly, just as it took a few days to adapt to life without the internet, it takes a while to readjust to life with it again. You might expect the kids to dive back in, but they often just log on for a few minutes before logging off again. Yet, as the school year begins, the pull of constant connectivity will inevitably reclaim their attention.
Despite the return to our digitally-driven lives, those summer moments of disconnect—where creativity flourished and even the most reluctant child found joy—are irreplaceable. They exist only in our memories, untouched by the vastness of the internet, and for that, I am grateful.
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Summary
A month without Wi-Fi may seem daunting, but it can lead to valuable experiences for children. Disconnecting from technology encourages creativity and genuine interactions, resulting in unforgettable moments that are all their own. When summer ends, the memories made during this time prove to be more fulfilling than any digital connection.