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11 Ways to Frustrate a Single Mom
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11 Ways to Frustrate a Single Mom
by Jamie Reynolds
Updated: November 10, 2017
Originally Published: August 1, 2016
Single mothers — often overlooked heroes navigating the complexities of parenthood. While we may recognize their role, many people fail to grasp the distinctive hurdles they face. Parenting challenges are universal, but there are certain phrases and situations that can particularly irritate a single mom. Here’s a light-hearted take on what not to say or do.
- “Bring your child! It’ll be a blast!”
Fun for whom exactly? While you sip wine and nibble on hors d’oeuvres, I’ll be running after my little one. I appreciate the invitation for my child, but let’s be real — adult conversations are hard to have when you’re juggling a wiggly toddler. Sure, your friends might bring their kids, but they have a partner to share the load. - “I don’t know how you do it.”
Honestly, neither do I! But if you really want to help, offer to babysit while I indulge in a little self-care. Your compliments don’t give me the break I need. A few hours of peace and quiet would be much more appreciated! - “Have you seen this movie?”
Probably not! It’s been ages since I’ve gone to the cinema. Sure, I could hire a babysitter, but that’s more for shopping or a quick drive in silence than for a night out. - “My spouse is the worst!”
Really? Unless your partner is neglectful or harmful, I might not be the best audience for your grievances. I haven’t had a moment alone in two years, so let’s save the pity party for someone else. - “Grocery shopping with kids is a nightmare!”
You think? I know this all too well because it’s my daily reality. If your partner’s working late, you have options. I don’t. - “What’s your parenting philosophy?”
Survival! I wish I had the luxury of exploring different parenting styles, but for now, meeting my child’s basic needs is my priority. We all made it through, and so will he. - “There’s a great Mommy and Me group!”
Thanks for the suggestion, but if it’s on a Tuesday at 10 a.m., it’s not happening for me. Single moms often juggle work with parenting, and such opportunities are rarely accessible. - “You must have help from [insert assumption].”
Actually, no. I’m managing on my own. While it does take a village, sometimes that village vanishes after the baby arrives. I had some initial support, but the ongoing struggle is real. - “It was a couples event.”
I love how this becomes a reason for exclusion. I can’t help but wonder if it’s pity for my single status, a hint of smugness, or discomfort around a single mom that leads to this excuse. - “Don’t worry, Mr. Right will find you!”
Oh really? I’ll just sit here perfecting my future homemaker skills while waiting for him, shall I? Being a single mom was my choice, and I’m not putting my life on hold for someone else. - “I’m soooo tired!”
Really? Every parent is fatigued, but not all single moms share the same frustrations. We all need a little understanding and support to maintain our sanity.
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Summary:
Navigating single motherhood comes with its own set of challenges and misunderstandings. From well-meaning advice to unsolicited comments, many interactions can be frustrating for single moms. Recognizing these nuances can foster greater empathy and support.