Hello there! As a woman navigating my 40s, I’ve come to realize that this stage of life has its perks. While society may overlook those of us in middle age, I find it liberating. At 47 and approaching 48, I’m smack in the middle of my journey. Looking back, I can see a blend of challenges—intense parenting, food struggles, self-image battles, and a mundane existence. Thankfully, I’ve already made most of my glaring mistakes, and I’m ready to embrace what lies ahead.
As I venture into this autumn of my life, I’ve discovered a refreshing indifference toward many things. Here are six things I’ve let go of:
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Fashion Choices
I’m not one to adhere to the so-called “mom uniform” anymore. While I like to look presentable, I don’t stress over the latest trends. My go-to outfit? Yoga pants paired with a flattering top that hits just right. After years of experimenting with styles, I’ve perfected a look that showcases my figure while keeping it comfortable. A casual dinner? You’ll find me in my yoga pants and chic boots—effortlessly stylish yet totally relatable. -
The Company I Keep
My true friends have journeyed with me through the highs and lows of life. They’ve been my support system, my cheerleaders, and sometimes my harshest critics. Through thick and thin, they have accepted every version of me. I no longer feel the need to curate my friendships; they’re genuine and low-maintenance. We’re a tight-knit group of fabulous women who would do anything for one another. -
Your Opinion of Me
You might think I’m a bit of a know-it-all for discussing parenting issues, but that’s your prerogative. I appreciate your engagement, whether you agree or disagree with my views. My writing sparks conversations, and I welcome them all. -
Culinary Skills
Cooking is a skill that develops over time—there’s no shortcut. After countless meals prepared, I’ve mastered the art of timing and seasoning. When I say dinner will be ready in 10 minutes, you better believe it. It’s all about experience, and I’ve had plenty of it. -
Intimacy Preferences
As I’ve matured, I’ve become more confident in my desires. I know what I want, and I’m not afraid to communicate that. There’s no longer any room for pretense; if the chemistry isn’t there, we’re both okay with moving on to something else—like a good book or a classic game. It’s all about comfort and honesty. -
Hair Decisions
By this age, we’ve either embraced bangs or we’ve let them go. I’ve learned the hard way that constant changes aren’t worth the hassle. As my grandmother used to say, “If you don’t like bangs, then why do you keep cutting them?” Wise words from a woman who knew how to rock her look for decades.
This list is just a taste of the things that no longer weigh on my mind. Of course, there are still concerns—like those pesky chin hairs and the inevitable sagging skin. Yes, we middle-aged women have our fair share of worries, from eye bags to the occasional hip discomfort. It’s all part of aging, and I’m learning to embrace it.
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In summary, this phase of life has taught me to focus on what truly matters and to let go of the trivial. Embrace your journey, and don’t sweat the small stuff.