If you’ve tuned into the Bravo scripted comedy Outrageous Moms, you likely find yourself wishing Jenna Larkman could be your mom bestie. Not only is she the show’s leading star, she’s also the creative mind behind it, transforming her own experiences navigating motherhood among the elite of New York City’s Upper East Side into relatable and laugh-out-loud entertainment.
Recently, Jenna released her book Glitter on My Tombstone: Musings, Rants, and Other Uplifting Thoughts on Life, so we caught up with her to discuss parenting wisdom, the perks of being in your forties, and how to cleverly use your kids as an excuse to opt out of certain obligations.
Everyone could use a brutally honest friend to help distract from their own parenting mishaps.
So, what’s great about being around forty?
Jenna: At this age, you genuinely care less about others’ opinions. You start to grasp your own mortality, which leads to a deeper appreciation for each day. Plus, you develop a solid sense of self, enabling you to navigate life with a sharper instinct.
What would you advise someone who’s expecting their third child?
Jenna: Prepare yourself and invest in some assistance. I always thought I could manage it all solo, but I would have lost my mind without a bit of extra help. It also gets crazier with each child, so make sure to prioritize some alone time with your partner.
Balancing work and family can feel impossible. Any tips?
Jenna: Schedule a couple of weekends each year just for you two as a couple, to rekindle that pre-parenting magic (dinner alone isn’t enough!). Small, thoughtful gestures like surprise gifts can also go a long way.
What was your last “mom panic” moment?
Jenna: Oh, just a few minutes ago! I found myself yelling at my kids to stop fighting.
When was the last time you used your child as an excuse to avoid something?
Jenna: Just last night! One of the perks of being in my forties is I no longer feel obligated to attend events I don’t want to. I just say I’m home with the kids while I’m actually enjoying another night out.
Have you ever been the couple who gets left out?
Jenna: Definitely. There have been occasions where we were uninvited from gatherings because I was too vocal about my views, and honestly, it usually turns out to be a blessing in disguise since I was already regretting going.
What’s the minimum amount of sleep you can survive on?
Jenna: Eight hours—anything less and I’m a zombie.
What’s the toughest part of raising kids in NYC? What’s the best?
The downside is the excess—kids who discuss private jets, multiple homes, and ostentatious displays of wealth. On the flip side, if you embrace NYC as a third parent and explore all five boroughs, exposing your kids to diverse cultures, art, and food, they grow up worldly and inspired.
Lice or a stomach bug—which would you prefer to tackle?
Jenna: Lice. It’s annoying, but dealing with barf and diarrhea is much worse!
How do you react when your kids say they hate you?
Jenna: I just let it slide. Later, when they profess their love, I remind them, “Oh, I thought you said you hated me?” They usually apologize and give me a hug.
For more insights from Jenna, check out her book, and if you haven’t started watching Outrageous Moms, what are you waiting for?
Summary
Jenna Larkman shares her candid thoughts on motherhood, life in her forties, and the challenges of parenting in New York City. With a humorous outlook, she discusses the importance of self-care, the value of honest friendships, and how to navigate the complexities of family life.