I’m writing this for anyone who might find themselves in a similar predicament as mine. It’s a disheartening reality that I never anticipated, but here we are. Yes, I have a loved one who supports Trump. And it’s not just a casual endorsement; they genuinely plan to cast their vote for him on Election Day, believing he should lead the country.
Heartbreakingly, I strive to keep our relationship intact, but discussing politics is a minefield. If I were to bring it up, I might explode with an avalanche of concerns, including the troubling aspects of his rhetoric. It’s crucial for me to preserve our family bond, so I strictly avoid mentioning Trump in conversation, and thankfully, they steer clear of political topics with me. After all, we’ve shared many moments watching the news together, and they know my stance.
Here are the seven stages of grief you might experience if you discover that someone you care for will support Trump:
- Shock and Disbelief
“No way!” I exclaimed over the phone to my loved one’s partner, Sarah. “I can’t believe it either,” she replied softly. “It’s like he’s been brainwashed.” Brainwashing seems like the only explanation, I think. How can we be so different? - Denial
When I visited my loved one’s house, I pretended that the incessant chatter from Fox News didn’t exist. I acted as if we were a happy family, ignoring the fact that one of us had seemingly lost touch with reality. I bit my tongue so hard, I almost drew blood and gave myself an ulcer. Eventually, I had to go home and face the next stage. - Anger
Seriously? How can anyone choose a leader who thrives on spreading anger and fear? This is a man who has insulted everyone from women to veterans. How can my loved one buy into the idea of building a wall? Don’t we all share a history as immigrants? It’s infuriating! - Bargaining
In desperation, I prayed, “Please, help my loved one see how misguided this is.” Then came the Republican convention, and Trump’s words just kept tumbling out—each one more outrageous than the last. “Did you see the news?” I asked Sarah one night. “Yes,” she replied. “And?” “He still supports him,” she sighed. - Guilt
Did my own enthusiasm for “Hillary for 2016” back in 2008 push him away? Could I have somehow covertly turned off Fox News? Perhaps I could have prevented this situation altogether. Probably not. - Depression
Oh, how I want to drown my sorrows in old David Letterman interviews with Trump—hilarious moments that remind me that most Americans are kind and rational enough to reject a leader who can’t go a few minutes without lying. They even timed him! - Acceptance (and Hope)
Ultimately, we all have the right to our opinions—even when the stakes are so high. I must accept that my loved one is fundamentally wrong, but they are still a good person at heart.
So there you have it: the stages of grief you might experience when someone dear to you aligns with the darker side of the political spectrum. Let’s stand together until November 9th, when hopefully, the world will regain its sense of normalcy, and Trump will retreat to his golden tower—light fixtures and all.
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In summary, we navigate complex feelings when loved ones support political figures we oppose. The stages of grief highlight the emotional rollercoaster of shock, denial, anger, bargaining, guilt, depression, and ultimately acceptance, reminding us of the importance of maintaining relationships amid disagreements.