Pregnancy is often portrayed as a magical time filled with glowing skin and blissful anticipation. However, the reality can be quite different. It’s a period characterized by discomfort, cravings, and emotional roller coasters. So while you’re navigating this journey of growth and change, here’s a handy list for your partner on how to be the best support system possible.
- Join her for late-night snack binges, and ask if she wants seconds.
- Offer her a soothing foot massage.
- When she brings up baby names or nursery themes, enthusiastically say, “Yes, let’s talk about it!”
- Remind her how stunning she looks.
- Keep the snacks coming.
- Attend every prenatal appointment with her.
- Maintain composure when discussing any bodily changes, no matter how awkward they may be.
- Surprise her with a comfy body pillow.
- And yes, some delicious tacos wouldn’t hurt either.
- Avoid indulging in foods that she has to steer clear of.
- Skip the cocktails in her presence, unless you want to face her wrath.
- Take on the cleaning duties for areas she can’t reach.
- Playfully criticize her non-pregnant friends for being too skinny.
- Give her belly a gentle kiss.
- Offer lower back rubs; they can work wonders.
- Go ahead, suggest another foot rub while you’re at it.
- Clean the bathrooms without being asked.
- Get emotional over sappy commercials—it’s okay!
- Do the laundry with a smile.
- Brush her hair and remind her she’s beautiful.
- Steer clear of comments about unwanted body changes.
- If she wants a unique baby reveal, support her enthusiasm.
- Be open to brainstorming nursery ideas together.
- Tread lightly when expressing your thoughts about baby names.
- Sometimes, silence is golden—let it be.
- Let someone else share their opinions on names, like your mother.
- Purchase more chocolate; it’s a win-win!
- When she shares her pregnancy woes, lend a patient ear.
- Agree that comfy yoga pants and oversized tees are the epitome of maternity fashion.
- Another foot rub? Yes, please!
- Imagine all the delightful moments that lie ahead with her.
- Embrace her heightened libido during the second trimester.
- Respect her boundaries when her desire dips—this is normal.
- Validate her feelings about the scale at the doctor’s office.
- In the third trimester, your only job is to listen.
- Discard the scary parts of pregnancy literature that might cause unnecessary anxiety.
- Keep labor discussions to a minimum unless she brings it up.
- Don’t even mention the potential changes to her body post-birth.
- When she wonders about the baby’s traits, avoid mentioning your own quirks.
- Do the laundry again—it’s worth it!
- Let her claim her side of the bed.
- Randomly express your love for her.
- Remind her of her beauty often.
- More chocolate never hurts!
- When she vents about family comments, just nod and listen.
- Collaborate with her to create a thoughtful birth plan.
- Factor in some much-needed rest for her.
- If she wants a photographer for the big day, go with the flow.
- If she’s keen on sharing live updates during the event, be supportive.
- Whether she dreams of a natural birth in a serene setting or a scheduled C-section, assist her in making it happen.
- If you mess up along the way and she’s upset, just grab some snacks and rage eat together.
Remember, pregnancy can be a whirlwind of emotions and changes. Your support can make a world of difference. For more tips and insights, check out our other blog post on intracervicalinsemination.com/blog. It’s essential to be there for her, so offer those lower back rubs and keep the chocolate flowing!