When my partner, Alex, made the decision to pursue a career as a high school English teacher, he was fully aware of the challenges that awaited him. With both his father and mother-in-law being educators, he had seen firsthand the dedication it requires. He envisioned a career that would allow him to channel his enthusiasm for learning and inspire students to express their thoughts—maybe even get a few of them to memorize a Shakespearean quote or craft their own sonnets.
At the time, we were relatively new parents, and we believed that teaching would provide a good work-life balance for someone as engaged and committed as Alex. He fondly recalled his father coming home in the early afternoon, enabling quality family time.
While we didn’t expect to hit the jackpot financially, we anticipated a stable income, regular raises, and decent benefits, all without the pressure of grueling hours or excessive stress. After a challenging job search, he landed a position at a fantastic school with caring colleagues and supportive administration. The students, although typical teenagers with varying interest in literature, were generally good kids who appreciated his contributions.
However, the reality of teaching turned out to be far different from what Alex had imagined. Although his students spend only six hours in school, he often puts in 10 to 12 hours daily. Rising at 5 a.m. to grade papers and plan lessons, Alex juggles a full teaching schedule with limited prep time, which is mostly consumed by grading. Lunch breaks? Rarely happen.
After school, he stays for required meetings, professional development, and to reach out to parents, often extending his day with additional grading and lesson prep. By the time he arrives home around 5 or 6 p.m., he’s utterly exhausted. While he loves our two sons dearly, he struggles with the evening chaos, just trying to make it through until bedtime.
This phenomenon isn’t isolated to Alex. Teachers across the United States are spending significantly more time with their students than their international counterparts, leaving little room for lesson planning, grading, and the overwhelming amount of paperwork they face daily. Most of this work spills into their personal time, and unfortunately, most districts don’t compensate for overtime.
The consequence? A mountain of stress, dissatisfaction, and burnout. A 2014 Gallup Poll revealed that half of all teachers reported high stress levels, surpassing even physicians in reported stress and indicating that 70% of teachers feel disengaged from their work. This raises serious questions about the well-being of the very educators responsible for shaping our children’s futures.
Interestingly, Alex and many teachers I know don’t harbor frustration towards their students. They are committed to their students’ success and strive to maintain a positive classroom environment. The source of their dissatisfaction often lies within the education system itself.
A report by The Washington Post highlighted a survey of 30,000 teachers, revealing that the majority of their stress stems from the constant implementation of new initiatives—like adapting to the Common Core State Standards—without sufficient training. The pressure to perpetually modify curricula and “teach to the test” is not only overwhelming but detrimental to both educators and students alike.
Most teachers indicated that their stress levels and job enthusiasm plummeted in the past few years, coinciding with a wave of these new mandates. Tragically, this was precisely when Alex began his teaching journey. He’s too invested to abandon his career now, but the toll of the job is starting to weigh heavily on him. He’s not alone; countless other teachers feel similarly.
What Can We Do to Help?
It’s essential to support officials who prioritize teachers—those who advocate for better contracts, salaries, and the reevaluation of harmful initiatives plaguing the education system. Additionally, expressing gratitude to your children’s teachers—beyond just during holidays or at the end of the school year—can significantly boost their morale and create a more positive school environment for everyone involved.
In conclusion, teachers like Alex work tirelessly, often at the expense of their well-being. They deserve recognition, support, and a hefty raise for the invaluable role they play in shaping future generations.
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