As a parent, I snap countless photos of my children, and in today’s digital age, I often share these moments on social media. Given my role as a parenting blogger, I probably share more than the average person. However, this raises a question: should I reconsider?
A recent discussion on NPR highlighted the growing concern around “sharenting,” which refers to parents posting about their kids online. During a meeting of the American Academy of Pediatrics, Professor Laura Thompson from the University of California and Dr. Mark Robinson, a pediatrician, shared insights from a study where parents and their children were surveyed about online sharing. Interestingly, while parents felt confident in their sharing practices, children often expressed a desire for more privacy.
At first glance, this seems a bit ludicrous. After all, I’m an adult with a young family—I should know what’s best for my kids, right? Yet, the reality is that children are growing up in a digital world that we can only begin to understand. They’re exposed to a landscape of social media and online presence from an early age, and they might be more attuned to the implications of sharing than we realize. While it’s our responsibility to guide them, it’s equally vital to listen to their perspectives.
Mindful Sharing
As parents, we need to be mindful of what we post. Beyond the potential risks of identity theft and online bullying, there’s a troubling phenomenon known as “digital kidnapping,” where individuals misappropriate other people’s children’s images for malicious purposes. In light of these dangers, it’s essential to consider our children’s feelings regarding their online representation.
I’m no stickler for privacy; my blog and social media platforms thrive on the amusing antics of my kids. I love sharing their adorable and sometimes embarrassing moments, and yes, I might even use those moments as leverage during their teenage years. However, I’m also cautious not to reveal anything that could put their safety or emotional well-being at risk.
Respecting Their Wishes
Ultimately, I don’t see most of my sharing as an invasion of privacy. Yet, if my children ever express discomfort about a specific photo or story, I will respect their wishes. Of course, I might still keep that story for my own amusement later—after all, a little humor never hurt anyone!
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In summary, while sharing our kids’ lives online is a common practice, it’s important to consider their feelings and the potential risks involved. With open communication and a balance of privacy, we can navigate this digital landscape together.