Looking to Nurture More Empathetic Kids? Volunteer Together!

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My daughter, Lily, is part of the Daisies, the adorable Girl Scouts for younger kids aged 4 to 6. Recently, her troop was set to volunteer at a local women’s shelter, where the girls would gather toiletries for women, sing festive carols, and help serve dinner.

Initially, I hesitated. Was Lily too young to grasp the significance of this volunteer opportunity? But upon reflection, I recognized the value in her involvement.

Lily is already familiar with the concepts of giving and volunteering. Over the past year, she’s assisted me in spring cleaning and sorting items for donation. She understands that some people face hardships, and it’s our duty to lend a helping hand whenever possible.

In her earlier years, it was a challenge to convince her to part with toys she no longer played with. Now, she happily donates them, realizing that other children will cherish them. She’s beginning to appreciate the rewarding feeling that comes from making a positive impact.

For this volunteering event, I explained what a women’s shelter is and how our contributions, like shampoo and toothpaste, could help those in need. It was a tough conversation, explaining that some women lack homes and are in dire financial situations—realities we often take for granted. Yet, I emphasized that even small actions can create meaningful change.

Lily was eager to help and excitedly assisted in choosing items from the wish list, even suggesting lip gloss and nail polish. When I asked why, she replied, “Maybe the ladies want to feel pretty after they shower and wash their hair.” I was astounded by her insight; it’s remarkable that a 4-year-old understands how small gestures can uplift someone’s spirits. I want her to recognize her blessings and understand the importance of caring for others.

When she inquired about why these women lacked homes or jobs, I explained that many have endured challenging times and may not have the support systems we enjoy. This revelation left her both surprised and saddened, but also motivated to help. After our discussion, I felt she was fully prepared for the volunteering experience.

Unfortunately, the event was canceled due to a bus breakdown, but we still delivered our donations. While it wasn’t the experience we hoped for, it served as a valuable lesson for Lily, and I’m in the process of organizing another volunteering opportunity for us.

Beyond volunteering, discussing life’s realities with children in an age-appropriate manner broadens their perspectives. Yes, these conversations can be difficult and may initially shock them, but isn’t it better for them to confront these truths early? This way, they can cultivate compassion and learn how to assist others. We certainly want to equip them with understanding before they face life’s complexities.

I’ve seen too many children oblivious to the struggles of others. They haven’t had the chance to develop empathy for those outside their immediate circles. Now, more than ever, we need caring individuals who genuinely want to contribute positively to the world. We can raise children who are grateful for their blessings and eager to help others.

Our society has enough self-centered individuals. Teaching our children to be better should be a personal and community-wide effort, whether through Scouting or other parent-led initiatives. Research indicates that “volunteering is associated with greater respect for others, leadership skills, and an understanding of citizenship that can carry into adulthood.”

Ultimately, we leave this world to our children. Don’t we want to create a more compassionate and rewarding place for them to thrive?

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Summary:

Engaging children in volunteer work at an early age fosters empathy and compassion. Through conversations about life’s realities, we can help them understand the importance of helping others. Encouraging such experiences and discussions prepares them to be caring individuals who appreciate their blessings and contribute positively to society.