Celia Martinez captures the essence of modern motherhood, highlighting moms who defy the traditional mold. Eleven years ago, when Celia embraced motherhood, she quickly realized that her appearance set her apart from other moms. “When I dropped my kids off at daycare, I often felt out of place,” she shared with Upworthy. “Most of the other moms were older, and I frequently heard comments like, ‘You’re so young to be a mom,’ or ‘You don’t really look like a mom.’ I always found that remark puzzling: what does a mom even look like?”
At just 23, Celia faced these judgmental attitudes, but instead of conforming, she decided to celebrate the uniqueness of motherhood. Through her photo series titled “Devoted,” she aims to redefine the stereotypes surrounding motherhood. Her work emphasizes that moms can express their individuality through tattoos, piercings, bold hair colors, and personal fashion choices.
“I knew many mothers who didn’t fit the ‘typical mom’ stereotype,” Celia explained. “I wanted to photograph them to demonstrate that there’s no single way to be a mom.” She seeks to dismantle the hasty and often unfounded perceptions about how mothers should look.
In 2016, we all recognize that moms can have tattoos and still be fantastic parents. However, many communities still view tattoos as taboo. Unfortunately, people often make snap judgments about someone’s parenting abilities based solely on their looks, which is quite unfair. We all deserve to be ourselves and feel comfortable in our skin.
“I wanted to showcase women—moms—who didn’t compromise on their personal style,” Celia remarked. “It’s easy to lose yourself in your kids, but these women retained their identities and continue to be wonderful parents.”
Interestingly, a 2015 Harris poll revealed that nearly half of millennials have tattoos, showing that this trend isn’t just limited to one generation. As a millennial mom myself, I understand the judgment that can come from others regarding tattoos or unconventional appearances. Many parents at my child’s school and in my community have made offhand remarks about my choices, assuming they reflect my parenting abilities, which they absolutely do not.
The poll also indicated that more than a third of Gen Xers have tattoos, and parents are more likely to have them than non-parents. Despite this, visible tattoos often face stigma, particularly in professional settings and among parents—it’s baffling.
The reality is that diversity in parenting styles and appearances enriches our community. What unites us is our fierce love for our children, our dedication to their well-being, and our commitment to nurturing them, regardless of our personal styles.
Celia shared with the Huffington Post her mission behind the project: “I wanted to present a different image of what it means to be a mother.” And indeed, she has succeeded—her work is a powerful reminder of the beauty in diversity and representation.
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In summary, Celia Martinez’s photography serves as a celebration of the diversity of motherhood, reminding us that there’s no single definition of what it means to be a mom. By showcasing mothers who embrace their individuality, she challenges outdated stereotypes and encourages a broader acceptance of all parenting styles.