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Dear Mark,
I’ll be the first to admit that I might nag you from time to time — let’s call it gentle reminders. You have this remarkable talent for strolling right past the overflowing trash can without lifting a finger. The hamper seems to play hide-and-seek with you, as it sits just feet away from your pile of clothes. And don’t even get me started on the empty glasses that seem to multiply around the house instead of making their way to the sink. Those little things can be frustrating (like that landscaping project you began… was it three years ago?), but when I step back and see the bigger picture, I realize how trivial they are.
What truly matters, and what I often overlook in the chaos of daily life, is how incredible you are as a father. If I could have crafted the perfect dad for our kids, my wish list would have been extensive. I would have asked for a man with the patience of a saint, one who could help with hours of middle school math homework without losing his cool (and, let’s be honest, someone who understands that math!). I would want him to be a role model, willing to share life lessons from his own father and always available, no matter how tricky it is to rearrange his schedule. I’d wish for him to be someone who shows our children what it means to be a good man—whether it’s by giving a coat to a homeless vet, volunteering at a food bank, or simply being there for someone in need. Oh, and of course, he must have a repertoire of dad jokes because what’s a dad without a few eye-roll-inducing punchlines?
While I can’t submit a custom order for a father, it turns out I hit the jackpot with you, Mark. You’re firm when you need to be, even if it’s not your favorite thing to do. Our kids see you as their rock, and even when you lay down the law, they know you’re a softy at heart. They feel your unwavering commitment to their safety and happiness. You prioritize family time, constantly brainstorming new adventures for us to enjoy together.
You teach them the little things, like how to bait a hook, and the big lessons about kindness and hard work. You encourage them to chase their dreams and assure them of your pride in their achievements. You’re their loudest cheerleader, their protector, and the one who helps them solve everything from a broken bike chain to a broken heart.
Like any parent, I want the best for our kids. And honestly, I couldn’t ask for a more precious gift for both them and me than the father you are. There’s nothing more heartwarming than witnessing your pride and love for our children. Knowing that they feel the same deep love for them that I do is priceless.
We often take the best parts of our lives for granted. There are parents out there navigating the journey alone, or those whose children experience neglect or abuse. I will always cherish how fortunate we are. I’ll continue to take those quiet moments to watch you with our kids, embodying the type of father they need at any given moment — whether it’s the fun dad, the strict dad, or the supportive one — and my heart swells with gratitude.
So while those socks might not find their way to the hamper on their own, and while the sink may not always be left spotless after your morning shave, I can overlook those minor inconveniences. The joy and value you bring as a father far outweigh any small annoyances.
With love,
Sarah
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In summary, this heartfelt letter expresses deep appreciation for Mark’s role as a father, acknowledging both the small frustrations and the immense value he brings to their family life. It emphasizes the importance of love, support, and the everyday moments that define their shared journey as parents.