The other day, I found myself in a bookstore with my son, Max. I wish I could say we spent our time exploring the shelves and discussing literature, but that wasn’t quite the reality. Instead, we were busy creating a mini tornado of chaos, touching everything, and climbing on whatever we could find to keep ourselves entertained until the sacred nap time arrived.
While I was in the midst of cleaning up after my little whirlwind, a kind sales associate approached us to offer help. But Max’s body language was clear: “No, thank you. I’m perfectly content taking every book off this shelf and moving on to the next adventure.” As I straightened up the aftermath of our visit, I spotted a Valentine’s Day display that was undeniably adorable. It was filled with books that celebrated the various kinds of love between parents and children, and even between animals and their young.
Flipping through a couple of these books, I quickly realized that none of them truly resonated with me. Sure, they were lovely, but the love I feel for my son isn’t about whimsical illustrations or poetic verses. Instead, it’s rooted in the reality of our daily lives together—like the tantrums he throws when I try to help him cross the street. So, since I couldn’t find the right book, I decided to write my own. Here’s my Valentine’s Day message to Max, titled “I Love You More: A Tribute to My Life-Changer.”
I Love You More Than Coffee
I vividly remember the moment the doctor announced I was pregnant with you. It’s etched in my mind, especially because it was also the day I had to curb my beloved coffee habit. Just imagine waking up without that much-needed morning boost! It was tough, and I know you’d feel the same if I took away your sippy cup. But every time I look down at you, I’m reminded that it was all worth it. I love you more than coffee, and yes, even more than sushi and deli meats.
I Love You More Than Sleep
Before you came along, your dad and I reveled in late mornings, waking up whenever we felt like it. Sleep-ins were a luxury! But now, “sleep in” means any day you linger in your crib past 7 a.m. I can’t blame all my sleepless nights on you; some of it was my own doing. I would often stay up late, just to watch you breathe in your bassinet. I know, a bit creepy, right? But I love you even more than my precious sleep.
I Love You More Than My Dignity
I’ve always considered myself a shy and quiet person. In fifth grade, I once dashed out of class to avoid reading a poem aloud. But that’s not the mom you know today. Now, I’m the one singing “The Wheels on the Bus” enthusiastically with other moms, walking like a dinosaur just to hear your laughter, and acting out silly motions in the car to make you smile—even as the car next to us laughs at my antics. I’ll do anything to make you giggle because I love you more than my dignity.
I Love You More Than Regular Hair Appointments
You might not be the sole reason for my graying hair, but you certainly contribute! Before you, I would never have let my hair get like this. Now, I hardly have the time or energy to fuss over it. Honestly, I put more effort into your outfits than my own! People probably wonder who that stylish toddler is with the mom who looks like she just rolled out of bed. But that’s okay, because I love you more than regular hair appointments.
I Love You More Than Fancy Restaurants
There was a time when your dad and I would dine at fancy restaurants, savoring quiet conversations over fine food. Those days are long gone. Now, our special evenings are more about Netflix and takeout after you’re asleep. And you know what? That’s perfectly fine with us because we love you more than those upscale dining experiences.
I love you beyond measure, my little troublemaker. I cherish you during tantrums, sleepless nights, and even when you poke me in the eye while naming body parts. And while we may never stroll hand-in-hand through a flower-filled garden, I know you love me just as fiercely. Oh, and I love you more than the last bite of my croissant you tried to snag this morning!
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In summary, my love for you is unparalleled, and while life has changed dramatically since your arrival, every moment is a treasure.