When the series finale of Girls kicked off with Hannah cradling a healthy mixed-race baby, I gasped in surprise. Given the show’s history of limited diversity, seeing her with a child whose father is a man of color was a shocker. I had watched most of season six, but as a busy mom with a toddler, I missed the infamous water skiing instructor hookup, making this unexpected twist even more jarring.
Having grown up with Girls, I resonated with the carefree, adventurous spirit of its Brooklyn protagonists. Yet, when I became a mom at 26, I felt as if my youthful freedom had vanished. As an aspiring writer, I worried that my inspiration would wane, relegating me to the parenting beat—a realm filled with challenges in a bustling city.
In many ways, the finale echoed the identity shift that new parents experience. Hannah’s journey represented a relatable transition, marking her growth as the series’ central figure.
What Did *Girls* Get Right About New Motherhood?
So, what did Girls get right about the trials of being a first-time millennial mom? The depiction was a mix of exhaustion, clichés, and moments of beauty.
Hannah struggled with breastfeeding, turning to pumping as her solution. While I empathized with her, I found her disconnection from her child frustrating. This feeling intensified when her baby refused to latch, emphasizing the challenges faced by single mothers. The pressure to adhere to the “breast is best” mantra, especially from friends like Marnie, can weigh heavily on new moms, even when it leads to exhaustion and frustration.
The finale dedicated a significant portion of its 38 minutes to the trials of feeding and soothing a newborn—aptly titled “Latching.” While it veered away from the show’s usual wit, it accurately reflected the reality of new motherhood.
You might also find yourself grappling with your partner’s “freedom.” While Hannah navigates motherhood without her child’s father, Marnie steps in to help during sleepless nights. This selflessness highlights the strength of their friendship. However, Marnie’s request to attend a jazz festival struck a nerve with Hannah—much like my own feelings when my partner enjoyed leisurely outings while I was fully immersed in childcare.
Many women experience postpartum depression; I was among them. Marnie’s clueless attempts to help, including calling Hannah’s mom for advice, felt misguided. Yet, her presence emphasized the importance of support, demonstrating that actions often speak louder than words.
Becoming a parent alters your perspective. When Hannah encounters a distressed teenage girl fleeing home after a fight, she feels a mix of horror and nostalgia. I remember being that carefree young adult, and now as a mother, I find myself worrying about those same girls making questionable choices.
While Girls effectively portrayed many aspects of new motherhood, it also missed the mark at times—like the unrealistic portrayal of moms enjoying wine on the porch while their babies sleep peacefully inside or the idea that taking a long bath is a feasible escape when you can barely find time for a shower.
Despite some missteps, I appreciated the growth reflected in Girls. For many viewers, the finale may have been disappointing, but for this mama bear, it was a beautifully crafted conclusion.
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In summary, the finale of Girls captured the complex realities of new motherhood, balancing moments of humor with the challenges that come with it. Hannah’s experiences resonated with many parents, showcasing growth and the importance of support networks.